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I masturbate with my fingers. But sometimes I will use other objects(longer and thicker). I'm just really curious if other women do that too. Cuz I feel like im doing something wrong like if it not okay to do that or... you know what i mean?. If other women do that please help me out.
I use my hand but I've used this vibrating wand thingy before. Its almost too intense tho.
I’d say as an adult, probably more women use actual sex toys.
But it’s absolutely normal to use random things.
Contrary to what you say in one of your replies, it's not a weird question at all.
Many women don't bother with vaginal penetration during masturbation because it doesn't do much for them, and clitoral stimulation is all they need. If you find the sensations of being penetrated very pleasurable, you shouldn't feel weird about it. That's just what you like, and nobody has the right to question or shame you for your preference.
It's best to use dildos or vibrators that are designed to be inserted in the vagina, but there are situations where a woman has to improvise because she wants to keep her self-pleasuring secret (for example, someone living at home with nosy parents or siblings who don't understand the concepts of privacy and personal space).
When choosing an object, you should make sure that it is scrupulously clean. Many different types of bacteria find the warm, moist vagina a great environment to reproduce in, and no woman has ever found a vaginal infection enjoyable. Oscaruk's suggestion to use a condom is probably the easiest way to ensure that the object is close to sterile. But as long as the object doesn't have any tiny nooks and crannies, a good scrub with antibacterial soap would most likely suffice. However, I'd suggest you think very carefully before using any sort of produce as a dido without a condom. Not only do those items have lots of microscopic pores that bacteria can lurk in, it's impossible to know what sort of noxious agricultural chemicals might have soaked into the skin.
Something else you should bear in mind is that the movement of an object in the vagina (including a penis) can result in micro-abrasions - tiny tears of the skin - if the vagina is not very well lubricated. It's possible that you might enjoy the feeling of some sort of texture on the object, but you shold be careful that it's not too rough.
One final point: all this assumes you're only referring to vaginal insertion. If you're also doing anal insertion, one thing you must ensure is that the object has a flange at the base or a very securely attached string. The vagina is a fairly shallow dead-end, and it's impossible for anything to get really stuck in it. When messing around with anal insertion, it's entirely possible for the object to slip up above the anal sphincter and get stuck there. Sometimes it's possible to push it out, but most of the time removal will require a very embarrassing conversation with a medic followed by an even more embarrassing and very intrusive procedure. If your idea of a fun time doesn't include kneeling on an operating table with your naked butt up in the air, at least one doctor and one nurse standing at that end of the table and forceps going up your anus to fish around for the object, you should stick to butt plugs and other toys designed for anal play.
Wow, what an idiot. How could you suggest this to the OP? Women have DIED from butt plugs, vibrators, and dildos. It's the third leading cause of women dying.
The third leading cause? Really? I bought my girlfriend a vibrating dildo for her birthday, and never saw her again. That must be the reason. She croaked on penetration.
You're a very horrible boyfriend. YES! it is the third leading cause of female deaths. Millions of women have died from it.
Fricking hilarious, dude. How about some real statistics:
According to the CDC, homicide is the fourth leading cause of death for American girls and women in the 1-19 year old age range, and the fifth leading cause of death for women 20 to 44.
According to the FBI, of American women who died by homicide in 2018, at least 92% of cases involved women or girls killed by a man they knew, and 63% them were killed by current husbands, ex-husbands or current boyfriends.
You're obviously being silly with your made-up statistic, but it's not funny at all that when a woman is murdered, it's highly probable that a dick she knows well is very close by.
It would be fun for you to experiment masturbating with different items.
Always ensure there are no sharp edges and that they are super clean and hygienic, you wouldn't want your new orgasmic life to be spoilt by infection or injury.
Food items such as carrots, bananas, cucumber or zucchini can also be a lot of fun, use a condom for extra safety