Is it normal to meet your soulmate after they've died?

Thanks for your input, i'd love to hear about it! If you like you may email me and we can share experiences.

well it did and you're right,i know it's not something you hear about everyday, OR something you expect to hear from a sane person. i'm not trying to sell anything to anyone here, i just am curious if others have had spiritual contact or connection with a loved one,especially someone who was their soulmate to ask them what their experience was like.i personally have now come to believe that each of us are spirits living in these bodies that we occupy in each lifetime,and that we choose to come to this world to learn and experience so we can grow thru what we learn, and then we return to our natural form which is spirit,where we meet with our actual group or family,who we are with eternally. i believe we plan and choose what we each need to experience,(love,hurt,success,wealth,poverty,ect.) to grow thru actually experiencing it. this i think explains why one baby is born healthy into a normal life while another is born maybe sick,or into poverty..to learn struggle and to overcome. it's not that God favors one over the other, it's Him allowing us to experience what we've chosen to learn. (this is turning into a sermon, sorry) well this time around i've learned that my soulmate and i were supposed to "meet" in California in 1990 but because i changed my mind and didn't go (something i've regretted ever since!), i deviated from our plan, and my soulmate instead died suddenly 9 yrs ago,but because he knew i would need his help,(i do, long story!) he chose to come to me in spite of what happened and fulfill what we planned together. there is more to this,but this is it basically. i promise you, i'm perfectly normal, not crazy, and i've never done drugs before,except caffeine.