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Whenever I get approached or hit on by a guy, it's never by an attractive guy and usually the guy is creepy. I would never date the type of men that hit on me. Is this normal?
And the attractive men will never date you. Maybe you have more in common with the "creepy" guys than the attractive ones.
me and my my man were at the strip club last night. 2 men approached me(im in a tee and jeans so not looking my best in any regards) one pretty damn cute older maybe 50 curkey grey hair offered to be me a drink while I was waiting in line. Politely declined.
The other was this ugly creepy dude who I saw throwing money on a stripper and kicking his lips looking at her breasts. Hard pass.
Outside of these events men of any caliber very rarely approach me. Not to toot my own horn but im about a 7. Seems to be the conses from others opinions as well. Men are scared to approach women so unless your in that type of environment its probably not gonna happen.
Try to work on your air of aproachability. Smile n junk. At any rate if you see a hot guy hit on him. Chances are he'll be taken or interested
Happens to a lot of males too. Guys can be desperate creatures when literally no one swipes right on them.
Hmm... well, it's not my circus, not my monkey. I try to be nice to the majority of people but I can't stand creepers who harass other people.
Creepers deserve to be alone. Just that some guys devolve into that if they arent properly socially groomed and have been denyed by hundreds of women. Now when I say denied by hundreds of women I mean in a dating app like tinder for guys to swipe right on every. Single. Picture at least one of those pictures has to like you back yes? For most yes, for others a blank page, that kind of on mass rejection can make a guy just go down a path of woman hating involuntary celibacy... Incels
Yea I wondered the same tbh ! Apparently I'm not unattractive either but I only.get hit on by unattractive men, never been a hot one ever ! Kinda sad
Sounds normal to me. Don't get this the wrong way, but chances are that the guys you consider attractive have better self-esteem or maybe just aren't looking to hook up in general.. could be they already have somebody.
Also - What's wrong with the guys that do hit on you ? I can understand that it might not be your type visually, but you're not gonna find a guy if you rate them by looks only without giving them a chance and getting to know them (at least it sounds like that in your question)
I think it's karma at work dear. Reject, and you'll be ignored. Be accepting, and you'll be approached often.
I've never been hit on (that I could tell, anyway) by a guy I found attractive or was interested in. Then again, I always had a hard time developing an attraction until I got to know the guy.
The small handful (like maybe 2-3) guys I ever really liked, never liked me back, either.