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Is it normal that i don't know how to enjoy my youth , or what's left from it ,since i am 29 and youth ends when you turn 30 . I don't have any friends to go out with , i don't know what to do to enjoy my youth,is it normal ?
Tell you what. Close your eyes and picture what you absolutely most want to do tonight. Whether it be party, go to bars, video game, watch movies, play video games, ANYTHING. Now that you have that thought in your head, go do it. That's how to enjoy your youth, do whatever you want whenever you want! Have fun, and live life! And you don't magically change when you turn 30, its just a number. You can enjoy yourself just as much at 30 as you can at 29.
Happiness is a state of mind. As NotFloydzie said, not everyone has fun the same way. But you can always change of job or join some kind group to get to know people.
NO, youth does not end at 30. Think of it this way: I will assume you're American (if not my apologies). In America, men and women on average live about 80. So first third of life = youth, second third=middle-age, so honestly, you're not old until you hit about 53, and even then, compared to 100 years ago, that's just barely getting old, not really truly old.
Age is a state of mind. 30 is still a young age, celebrate your birthday the way you want to.
I agree with blackmesa, Happiness definately is a state of mind. But we humans are social animals, so we definately need people around us. If you don't have friends to talk to, it could be hard. But you're in the right place. Here you can at least read people's comments and you can comment back. So you have a little bit conversation.
Do you go to school? school is the best place to find good friends at. Try a community college and maybe just take one course. You can try volunteering for the school maybe only few hours, but that will get you started to make new and good friends.
Hope everything goes well with you and you enjoy your life.