Is it normal to not like going out?

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Is it normal to dislike going out friday night or whatever? There are some reasons for me to think this:

I dont drink alcohol

I think most people there are total dicks

High ratio of car accidents, fights, etc

I have to deal with drunkers (not that I hate people who drink)

I have to deal with smokers, seriously i absolutly hate the smell of cigarette (again not that I dont hate smokers)

Music in discos and night clubs to me is absolute garbage, and like this wasnt bad enough you have to read lips to understand someone there

And the worst part of all this is that not going out is a REALLY BIG DEAL and people start doing this since they are 15 here, and disliking it makes me look like anti social! And truth is I'm becoming one, I'm 17 and I don't have a love life or a friend that I fell that I can talk about everything to, and I rarely text to someone but I see people doing it 24/7.

I fell depressed almost everyday because of this.

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Based on 109 votes (89 yes)
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  • DolphinAngel
    12 years ago

    Hmm I am a bit like you but I like drinking alcohol and like going on parties but not that often... and my friends get pissed when I don't want to go party sometimes... and as I live in germany it is a big deal -.-

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    • iPooBigMacs
      12 years ago

      If its a private party or a birthday party I really don't mind, what I meant was going to public spaces

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    12 years ago

    This statement, "I think most people there are total dicks " made me lol.
    It's totally normal.

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  • Jeshua
    12 years ago

    I don't like clubs either. Just hook up with other people other places

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    • peterrabbyt4
      7 years ago

      what about gay clubs?

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  • Dozis
    12 years ago

    Would somebody please do something to get rid of these bloody trolls already? They are getting kind of extremely annoying.
    The whole main page is filled with their rantings.
    I loved the website when I saw it the first time.
    Now It is just getting so lame!
    Why do you people always have to turn everything into a pile of crap!?

    That being said: feeling uncomfortable about getting out is of great impairment to your life whatever the reason and rationalizations you come up with to explain the fact you do not like going out much and hide yourself from the truth that you, feel uncomfortable about going out. It might be an anxiety issue, or it is just the place you live in. I do not know. Even if I consider this normal you still will have to live with what you do and what you do not do.

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  • cymbeline
    12 years ago

    It's normal. People who drink don't realize how moronic they look. And the guys are just total opportunists at the best of times.

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    Seems like your playing it safe. However, have you thought about hanging out with people who are your friends and trust? Maybe that way you'll know the people around you and the fun could be safe.

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    • cymbeline
      12 years ago

      Why did your account get disabled? I saw your comments and I liked them. I was sad when I thought you left.

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      • Anime7
        12 years ago

        I really have no idea why my accounts get disabled. I contacted management and so far no reply. However, I am glad that someone enjoys my comments. thank you

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        • cymbeline
          12 years ago

          I do like them. Keep going! I like.

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    Yes, it's normal to be smart, and safe.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It's normal to hate idiots but if you look for friendship you'll find it.

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  • DrinaVonCheez
    12 years ago

    It's normal, you're just not a douche :)

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