Is it normal to only have sex once a month?

This is regarding a straight couple. He is 26 and she is 23. Neither is cheating. Both are attractive. They only have sex once a month. Is this normal?

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33% Normal
Based on 1270 votes (417 yes)
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Comments ( 33 )
  • runnergirl

    If they're both satisfied, who am I to judge?!

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  • i dont have sex at all, so im guessing it's normal.

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  • juju

    If they live together then he'll no come on I still don't have sex & I feel like banginq every daym min? Nd if they don't then yeah

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  • They won't get bored, then!

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  • frankiepage

    If they're happy about their situation than I don't think it's abnormal.

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  • mahollcoke

    I have sex nearly everyday! So this is so wierd to me!

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  • radishbobby84

    yea normal

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  • lilsweetie96

    ya its pretty normal its all on your choice if you WANT to have sex.

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  • ruralfrights

    The avg (roughly) for a married couple (it didn't give the ages) is a couple to three times a week (Knsg study). So face it. Your not normal.

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  • Worksleepfuckrepeat

    I'm 23 with a 27-year-old partner and we have sex everyday. We are very sexual people. My best friend is 21 with a 29-year-old partner and they have sex about once a month. They aren't extremely sexual people. Both relationships are happy. Some people have more of a desire/need than others. If two people who don't particularly need sex all the time decide to be together, I don't see why they couldn't be content without it for a while.

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  • TheArBuilder

    Sex doesn't have much to do with relationships. If a couple never has sex but is happy, no problem.

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  • Doyourthang66

    That's NOT a healthy Sex drive :L

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  • dudecalmdown

    Dude i don't know i jerk off every other day so you have better control than me

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  • Comando96

    Yeah my 2 best friends... they have sex, if possible every day (with each other).

    Having sex once a month may be normal if you are not in a sexual relationship and its get it as it comes but... no... they are not that normal...

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  • gako

    Maybe they both have weak sexual desires. Are they both working full-time and under a lot of stress? Maybe things at home aren't going too well. It could be a lot of reasons.

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  • amili

    I'm lucky if m bf puts out once every two or three months. I don't get it.... But when it does happen it's less than average anyway so I just forget about it :(

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  • lavabava

    Well, maybe they have an agreement. Plus if they have sex more frequently then the relationship might get based on sex only which is not a good.

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  • NotEverEnuf

    No but I know how it is. I'm 41 & hubby's 52 and he NEVER wants it!

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  • yoyoyou

    do they only want sexe once a month?

    thats a little odd.

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    • yoyoyou

      *sex

      ugh. xP

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  • infinity69

    mate, dont complain about once a month, my partner and i live 2 streets away, see each other every day, are alone in the house for hours at a time at night...............

    and we have sex maybe 10 times annually.

    fml.

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  • JuliusE

    Only if your in a long distance relationship. That's really, really not normal for me but I love sex so I guess I'm bias

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  • sexoholic

    I agree with SaintlySaint!

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  • susan86

    Sux to be them :-/ I'd be miserable

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  • victorit

    If they live together then Hell No! If they live apart them yes

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  • Nope it's not normal unless one lives with their parents then u can't really help it.

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  • What has this world come to where couples have sex every fricking month. WTF

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  • uhohoreo

    It is way weird...I gotta have sex at least 3-4 times a week

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  • negra18soccer

    How the heck can u guys only do it once a month? I try to do it every dang day!!

    (slut much)?

    I think so :( haha

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  • grumpybarbie

    Waiiiiit ! Need more info ! Do they live together ?? I'm thinking not so normal ! Sorry .

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  • iGornet

    They should consider themselves lucky. I don't get any.

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  • lily268

    I don't think this is normal, you might what to see a sex therapist.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Holy shit balls! Me and my gf have sex roughly 3 times a day!!! We are young though (20) and I'm horny as a mountain lion most of the time. If you want more, both of you go to the gym and get your man to start lifitng weights. Causes an increase in testosterone levels which leads to a much higher libido. :) fuck yea

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