Is it normal to push people who like me away? even when i like them?

I'm a girl who isn't afraid to talk to guys and get to know them and I notice that I will constantly talk to them, go on dates, flirt etc until the point where they are literally head over heels for me. I find that then I push them away, I ignore them. It's like I wait until they've given me their heart and then I crush it. I don't intentionally to this on purpose it just happens, I want to stop it but I constantly do it. IIN? D; Am I a b*tch. Help!!!!

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  • mycurseinside

    Not a bitch, just not ready to be in anything serious. If you don't want to be in a relationship that's fine, but if you don't want to keep their heart safe once they've given it to you, I'd say its best to just not go on dates or lead them on. It'll save them the heartbreak and you the guilt.

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  • Dad

    Let them know upfront next time, then no issue.
    You're a fun loving girl who is not interested in anything serious or remotely serious just yet, maybe next year!

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  • Sweetz

    Scared of commitment

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