Is it normal to sleep with 40 men or more?

At the same time? :O

I think it depends on what kind of relationship you like.

I prefer long term, serious relationships. I'm not one for dating to find someone. I have to know if I like them to start. I've only been with one guy. I'm 23. I was with him for about 3 years. I know I want to try for a long term again. It's just what I prefer, because I like only having one guy on my mind, not feeling like it isn't going anywhere. Not feeling like I'm just holding myself over until I find another. That just seems like a waste of time and energy.

But that's just me. For me, I can see an attractive person and not feel anything. There has to be more. I need chemistry.

If you weren't in relationships with them and emotionally attached, then I think you are sitting on a fortune and should charge for it.

No point giving it away for free ;o)

Honestly, it takes a special type of girl to have meaningless sex - so you could be a great prostitute.

Nope, not in my own opinion.

Dunno if it's normal but it must of been one hell of a weekend for you.

To think that at one point on my life I hated myself for sleeping with only 2 guys. Relationships at that. Just got to remember that the worlds a changed place I guess

Pretty goddamn slutty. If a girl told me she fucked 40 guys, id fuck her (WITH A CONDOM), but i would never date her. Its impossible to love a woman like that, unless you yourself are some kind of manwhore whose banged even more people than she has.

But basically youve already ruined your love life. No guy will ever be able to respect the real you, so youll probably be alone for the rest of your life once you start getting old and your looks go.

It's normal. Don't let anyone tell you different. Most girls are not telling the truth when they say their "number" because of the same thing that's happening with the slut implication. You're very brave, even on an anonymous site, to post and ask, and totally understandable.

I'll tell you this: the reason most females don't have more casual sex is because most guys have big mouths and most people have double standards or else go along with what the crowd is saying.

Stay safe, don't let any guys lie to you or try to convince you to do anything unsafe. Kick those guys to the curb ASAP - they are selfish walking red flags who probably have at least one STD, and I'm not trying to be mean, I'm being factual. Stay confident in yourself and love and treasure yourself above all others. Keep you #1 and stay strong. Don't give anyone who doesn't absolutely worship the ground you walk on the time of day, let alone the privilege of your intimate sharing. It is a beautiful gift and wonderful experience. As you get older, you will become more selective and more interested in only sharing that gift of yourself with someone who has invested themselves in being with you.

Regardless of what anyone says where other people will see it and possibly judge them, I'll tell you the truth right now:

it is totally normal.

Just don't go around telling everyone the number, like another poster mentioned (sorry, it's going to hurt my eyes trying to find the person to credit by wading back through all the negativity and what can only be bandwagon jumping, hypocrisy or collective ignorance, no offense though I'm sure someone might be offended anyway).

If you were a guy and had the same "number" and told your guy friends, your guy friends would be like, "that's IT, dude? LOOOSER, VIIIRGIN, ha ha ha, I had that many last WEEKEND, and that doesn't count your mom" etc. etc. and go home and fap.

Be safe, be good, and stay you. :)

Do what you want to do just be careful health-wise you can't always trust people!

Slutty

id say thats pretty slutty. why dont u find yourself a nice guy to have a long term relationship with instead of having tons of casual sex.

Keep on fuckin!

Not at the same time I hope O.o

Normal if you're a dirty nasty slut.

Call me.

You're not a slut you just got a friendly pussy like me.just never get a STD and your straight bcuz you can always stop messing around like that but once you get HIV/aids your done...just rap it up one day you'll choose to turn your life around and be monogamous

It's normal and it's also normal to never slept with any man. We're all different. Assuming you've been having sex for about ten years or so, that's only four men a year. I know girls who have four a week.

...No, but you're not the only person I know to have been with such a high number. Personally, I felt my 11 was really high but uhh... I don't know where you find the time or energy to bang 50+

Do what makes you happy, please, for the love of all that is decent do not spread STDs, and get a full time job. There is no reason that a grown adult should have time to do this. Time to screw=Time to work.

no its not normal think when you get married your husband will be like number 50

Its absolutely and totally normal behavior.....

for a slut.

Your parents must be real proud.

It's normal if you're a dirty dirty nasty slut whore. You probably can't give someone a high five without giving them a STD.

It's great - if you want cervical cancer.

Yep. The more men you sleep with the more you'll be likely to get HPV which can lead to cancer.

So carry on, if you don't mind having cancer in your genitals.

NO! you are a harlot and shall burn in the Pitts of hell for inciting out young men with your leprousious cunt bubbles

Shit I'm 24 and I can't still count them on one finger. I see no problem with 100 as long as you can stay healthy. Std's are no bueno

daaaamn i'm 22 and can still count them on one hand. You should invest in the condom companies. You're half their revenue assuming you use them. Otherwise that's gross.

Normal. You don't even qualify as 'promiscuous'. I'd like to see the word 'slut' lose its sting. People who care how many blokes a girl has fucked can go to hell.

As a girl with a mature, carefree attitude to sex, you are a rare and wonderful creature. Actually, you're an ANGEL. I wish all women were like you. It would make life as a shy dude so much easier :)

In my opionion it's normal. I really think it depends on the woman. If your the type that doesn't get emotionally involved it wouldn't affect your self esteem. There are some girls out there who view sex in a different way then other females would like to have a new experience or just have "the need". It's kinda like have the mentality of a male but not wanting to hump everything that moves just see it as a casual thing. In a sense it could be a good thing, some girls who sleep with a guy develope a obsession emotionally and it' just sick.

I sleep with 40 cats. My mom licks my uncle's unwashed ass cheese sometimes and I fap to it

As long as you protect yourself it's completely normal! No one needs to know your number ;)

Not that outlandish of a number. Is it slutty? Yeah. Your probably gonna have relationship issues later in life. I honestly wouldn't think any less of you, but most girls I know that sleep around will cheat when they have a long term relationship.

Life is too short to worry about what other people think. If it makes you happy and you're not hurting anyone then go for it!! You don't want to settle down later in life and think "what if...".

i think its normal. Ive slept with probly close to 50 men and Im only 19 and suprisingly im not considered a slut. Its how you do it I reckon. Everyone just thinks im one of the boys, little do they know im fucking them all mwhahhaaha

Thats only like 5 guys a year since you were 18 thats really not all that bad.

I slept with 23 by age 18 lol

"normal" is realative. Do what makes you happy as long as it isn't hurting anyone else.

The more the better. I like that i can't remember some of the girl's names that I've banged

It's quite normal these days.

I am almost 50.slept with 25 women. I prefer a girl I can trust and I enjoy every inch of her body with my tongue, I never use condoms. I never fuck sluts or have 1 night stands. Everyone is different. I prefer a sexy gf over a sexy stranger

SLUT

We have a very open marriage and are free to chose and do what we like with other people. My wife has had more than 40+ guys in her lifetime and still enjoys the freedom of having sex with another guy. Her sex drive is very high and gets great pleasure from being used, call her a slut if you like but we still love each other and I wouldn't want to stop her from enjoying and getting sexual pleasures. We have amazing sex when she comes home with her pussy filled with the cum of a stranger. Normal, maybe not, but in our house yes.

That is extremely slutty

i love a slut like you very much you enjoy baby

We shouldhave a contest to see the most guys a girls fucked by 25.. Winner gets an STD of their choice after sucking me off drowning in my torrential cumstorms plus a surprise STD thanks to your mom

Im 20 iv slept with 43 guys

I'm 23 and I have only had one guy. For me that's normal. But I guess if you are happy......

you're nasty.

That's irregular
You are a dirty slut bag
Get tested for hep

I was 3 of those men.

This fried egg sandwich is amazing, you want some? :)

Perfectly normal. I'm not saying many people your age have slept with that many people. It's proven that people tend to lie about their number to lessen it or to make it higher... for their own reasons I suppose. My partner has slept with a similar number to you, there was a reason behind that as she had a shitty upbringing - I'm assuming you have a similar situation?

Sluuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut!!!!!!!!!!1

Im a 24 year old male and train and fight MMA. I slept with over 100 woman but turned down prolly the same amount. I sometimes think that's bad but 40 isn't bad but that's your business and shouldn't matter

if you enjoy what you are doing and love the attetion you get from guys then carry on laying on your back for them cos i do, so whats the most you had in one go

Here is why its not normal:
AIDS
CLYMADIA
GONORRHEA
SYPHILLUS
HERPES
PREGO
TRICHOMOSAS
HPV VIRUS
shall I go on?????Seriously you should think about going with a psychologist or something

Very decent effort if I say do myself

Dont get HIV.

i want to make shure you mean 40 diferent guys and not 40 times me and my gf have had sex way more then 40 times in the past 2 months but if its 40 difrent guys id say its an odd amount but if you dont mind why should we care

sounds like you should be on Maury Povich show

That is a lot of men to have slept with for only being 25, but I don't think any of us can really judge whether or not it's normal because who you have sex with is your own business. If it doesn't bother you emotionally then that is up to you

40 is really not that many compared to some of the girls that I know who are only 18/19 years old. Keep havin fun

Men are very easy creatures to appease, the mere fact that you are indeed a female will act as a stimulant to the most easily appeased male. There are of course many of these types floating about. The important thing to remember, is that as a female, your emotional spectrum is limited, you are of course only gratified by chocolate or an entire fist plunged into your vagina. The more you copulate with gentlemen, the larger your genitalia will become, of course this aids somewhat with childbirth, and also with the fact that one day without thinking about it you shall be forced into lesbianism. Of course having a large orifice will assist because you will become the darling treasure of the lesbian community, after all a large vagina is prized amongst their social circle.
Remember that men only desire to mate with you to get their end away, you are an asset to the female community in that, for males, you are an easy option, and easy options are desirable to males because it lets them concentrate more on important things, such as running countries and taxes, things frivolous females cannot comprehend.
You provide a service and should be heralded.
I hope this has been helpful.

i have given blowjobs to over 40 different guys

I don't beleive it's slutty at all as I believe sex is there for us all to enjoy, not only people in relationships. You've slept with 40+ plus men it's hardly the end of the world. I've slept with between 30 and 40 men some and I can't even remember some of their names, but I don't feel bad I wasn't hurting anyone and neither are you hurting anyone. If you can't be good be careful and you can't be careful buy a pram xxx

I love a girl with experience :D specially if she shares the stories

does the result of this question or opinions of others even matter to you.. will they have any effect on you. i dont think so i agree to the comment you're husband will be a number 50

Lucky!

It would not be normal for me since I love the ladies. NEWay, if you dont care then who should? Can I be one of them?

I think it's great. But I don't call myself SlutLover for nothing.

what is not normal is people only having a handful of sexual partners. Only people with their own hangups about sex would consider that to be abnormal.
Do what you want and do not worry about other peoples "shoulds".
what do they know, usually people who condemn you are jealous and directing that on people who choose to do things they are too afraid of doing.