Is it normal to stop being friends with someone?

I had this friend with whom I was close with... basically told her everything about myself. turns out she was just being fake because as she saw the opportunity she backstabbed me...she talked to the one person she knew not to talk because of how said person felt about me. I completely cut off our relationship

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  • shygirl$$

    there is a saying that goes you shouldn't hang around people that hang around people that don't like you because when your not around. guess who's the topic? don't know if it applies to everyone though but it makes sense

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    • Fall_leaves

      Maybe why does she not like you? I don't think that applies to my issue, the girl who wants me to cut her out of my life is the one that's saying the mean things and talking badly about her.

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      • shygirl$$

        Immaturity, jealousy and some others, I'm with her ex.

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      • shygirl$$

        we'll she is the one that needs to be cut out of your life.

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  • Fall_leaves

    Weird how similar of a situation I'm in. I have a friend who wants me to cut another person out of my life because they don't like them.

    I'm close to cutting that friend out of my life because they think it's okay to try to control the people I talk to.

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    • Ellenna

      Well, don't: control freaks only have as much power as others give them

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  • WhiteApple

    I have high standards, and respect has to be earned before a commitment. I have cut lose some friends in the past because they had let me down one to many times.

    When they start disappointing you without just cause, it's time to go. Life is too short to surround yourself with self absorbed people who will never meet your standards.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Yeah, shitty people happen. Take your sweet time to really get to know someone before you tell them your personal stuff.

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    • shygirl$$

      she did it to me more than once.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Well, are you still friends with her? I think she would look best in your rear view mirror.

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        • Ellenna

          Good phrase and I agree!

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          • RoseIsabella

            Thanks, Ellenna!

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        • shygirl$$

          I am no longer friends with her... she did it one times too many

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          • RoseIsabella

            Right on!

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