Is it normal to study for 6 years at college...

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I have a problem in my life which i cant get over!
Im studying for the 6th year at a College and couldnt even reach the Bc. grade.For normal people it takes 3 years to accomplish.Im not dumb or stupid at all, but it seems i cant finish this fucken school...Im 25 now and i dont see my future bright!
I always get the bad feeling before exams and cant force myself to study.But when i finally force myself i pass some exams with easse.
So is this normal or I am a laty bastard?

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  • oOpolkadotOo
    13 years ago

    It sounds like you are seriously depressed. You need to talk to someone. Depression can make it difficult just to get out of bed. Having to complete assignments and study for exams can feel overwhelming when you're depressed. Please see a doctor. I struggled with depression while completing my degree and it wasn't easy but I was able to manage it with medication. It's not your fault!

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  • tutyit
    13 years ago

    But the problem is that i used my parents money for this...Now i got an ultimatum to find a job and pay all the fees i am affraid that i am lost and now considering a suicide...imtotally desperate and lost...maybe suicide is a way out...im doing really bad now and i know itsmy fault and my shame...

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    • artschooldropout
      13 years ago

      It's not your fault. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Do you how many people would be upset by that? MORE THAN YOU THINK. You're in a funk right now. Get yourself out of it. I like to watch 'Away We Go.' It makes me laugh everytime. Watch something that will make you laugh!! Be free. Find something healthy that makes you feel confidant. It can be anything. Once you feel confidant, you can do ANYTHING. I promise.

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      • [Old Memory]
        13 years ago

        Its one less person competing for jobs, resources, money, etc. I doubt anyone would be broken up about it for too long..

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  • beerlover123
    13 years ago

    Haha I'm in my 6th year too, but for me it's because I partied hard and changed my major late. I don't think it's very common but I know a lot of other people in the same boat.

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  • follow_me_down
    13 years ago

    Every person learns at a different pace. Maybe you should try getting some tutoring as a moral booster. If you feel so insecure before an exam, it might lessen if you are reassured by studying a lot with a tutor.

    Worth a try. Don't give up! Especially when you are in it this deep.

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