Is it normal to think i’m still friends with a guy that finds me hot?

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We’ve been friends for like a few years now, nothing sexual was ever between us but recently he was inclined to see my boobs when I was joking about it….

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  • ellnell
    2 years ago

    I have male friends who are attracted to me and it's never awkward. They're in the minority of men who doesn't have to make everything about sex, though. He could very well still be a genuine friend of yours, but he shouldn't be talking about your boobs unless that's a way of joking with each other you have and it's fine by you. If he keeps that up and starts making sexual remarks on the regular you should probably dump him or at least tell him it makes you uncomfortable in which case he should respect that.

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    • Zap96
      2 years ago

      Thank you. Yeah, the dynamics you are talking about are the same between me and him, and he’s not forceful or anything so that’s good.

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    I used to have a friend who was like that, but then he said something really explicit, and I dumped him.

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    • Zap96
      2 years ago

      Does that mean that he sees me as more than friends?

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      • RoseIsabella
        2 years ago

        Maybe, or maybe he wants to be more than friends. I myself am not too keen on people being physically attracted to me when I'm not interested in them in that way.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    I had a few friends like that but my wife put a stop to that one quickly

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  • [Old Memory]
    2 years ago

    What did he do to not make it weird

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    • Zap96
      2 years ago

      Basically I was joking about my boobs that are therapeutic and he was like “I wish I had that kind of therapy…” and I was like in my mind, he doesn’t mind thinking more about them and about me, maybe he never truly saw me as just a friend…

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