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I only masturbate once in a blue moon. Is this normal? I feel like it is unneeded, and it bothers me when I do.
You think whether a man jerks off or not is a huge contributing factor in his decision to commit rape?
i love to masturbate every day and to make it last as long as i can its normal
I feel no desire to masterbate and I'm a woman. I'm sure it's different if you're a guy, but I don't see any point in masterbating because sex is supposed to be between two people. I want to meet a man to have a family with. I'm not interested in just pleasure because there is something so empty about masturbating by yourself.
Like Thatguy777 said, I'm also Christian, and well, I masturbate about every day, sometimes twice.
I personally don't find it wrong, because I read that it has health benefits, I forgot what exactly, but I think it lowers blood pressure, or something like that.
I know that it certainly reduces stress.
I mean, I respect what you want to do, I'm not trying to force you to masturbate everyday, but still, just thought I'd put my POV on it.
I'm a Christian who believes in the Bible, which says that even lusting after someone (which is basically what everyone does during masturbation) is wrong, and I STILL masturbate almost everyday. It's natural to get off, and some studies show that it's actually good for you.
I used to masturbate a lot but I was always very sad and guilty after and I stopped masturbating now even tough I have the urge to do it. I am a Christian too.
Thats not true. Not all people are lusting after someone when they are masturbating. Which would mean the rule does not apply to all people. You realize just touching yourself can get someone to orgasm. It does not necessarily have to be associated with a thought.
Some studies? More like ALL studies. Human evolution has bred us to be horny fucks. In fact, daily masturbation is very healthy for all men :D
There's only one explaination for that: you got an extremely low libido. So low I think it's not normal, you should do something about it. Masturbation is great, you should do it every chance you get.
i masturebate 2 times a day i find it very relaxing- btw are u male or female?
Nothing wrong with masturbating at least once a day. Twice if you are really horny. I masturbate at least once per day on the average. Don't hold back as your system will adjust and you will not product enough semen to do it as often as you want. So, go ahead and masturbate as often as your system will perform. It cleans you out which is very good for you.......Both mentally and physically (enjoy)
Definition of masturbaition- stimulating a sexual organ
A finger is a sexual organ
So, touching your finger is masturbaiting?
My super long explanation for this (I'm a girl, btw): This is one of those things that is normal if you think it is and normal if you think it isn't. I am kind of undecided, but I don't think there's anything INHERENTLY wrong with it, and I've done it just like most people. In fact I'm waiting for marriage to have sex and in my twenties-- it was either masturbate at some point, go against my beliefs/personal wishes in a bigger way, or explode from sexual frustration. The only reason I'd say it is at all wrong is because I think it could be bad if you do it TOO much, as a way of self-medicating anything, or as an addiction, etc. But I even talked to pastor about this and similar things once, and their response was that God made us as sexual beings, and we don't need to be ashamed of that fact, just focus on trying to make sure our "thought life" isn't focused too much on anything unhealthy, like porn or something. Some people have no inclination to masturbate at all and you shouldn't compare yourself to them because everyone has different sex drives and hormone levels. (Did you know that monks who never masturbated got actual testicular health problems?) Plus I can't really relate it to that Bible verse about how you commit adultery if you lust after someone because you can't commit adultery if you aren't married... everyone feels sexual attraction, and attraction is really important especially in dating, since physical attraction is actually an indication that your chemistry is compatible enough to have healthy children. (That verse btw, imo, isn't as much about sexual attraction itself, it's about having SUCH a strong sexual reaction to someone that you are actually "lusting after" them, ie you'd want to really have sex with them and cheat on your spouse, whereas the healthy reaction is probably to have a sexual response to a visual stimulus like a normal human being which would then make you want to go home and have sex with your spouse lol). I'd definitely consider it wrong though if you were married to someone and masturbated while thinking of someone else other than your spouse. That just feels wrong and I wouldn't want my husband doing it. But knowing that my future husband is out there somewhere, I'd actually be a little bit concerned about the future health of our sexual relationship if he didn't masturbate from time to time because I'd think it probably meant he had a low sex drive... JMHO.
Many times have I felt bad about having done it, and I have had periods, where I have not done it more than once a month.
"I only masturbate once in a blue moon."
It works better on a blue film. :D
I think it depends on to what the person is masturbating. Also frequency is a factor as well as whether or not you're injuring yourself or having unhealthy fantasies. It doesn't sound like your life has become unmanageable as a result of masturbation so far, OP.