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i have almost no friends and i'm trying to make new ones, but i'm kinda paranoid about how people will judge me over silly things, like what web browser i use(chrome) or the brand of coffee i buy(folgers)
People are always judging. I wouldnt call myself judgmental, but more so aware of the world around me. I build impressions on every single person I meet. However, I am very open-minded, forgiving, and very open to understanding where people are coming from regardless of what they do or have done. I never think to myself "this person isnt normal." I dont judge people based on simple things like what brand of coffee they drink. I would say most people are like this, or at least the simple fact that they dont judge you based on simple things. If they do, they are NOT worth your time. They are not people you want to waste your time on anyway. I have met a few people like this, and I never waste a single moment on them. If you are afraid that everyone is judging you on all the time, you won't be yourself and people will actually start to judge you for not being sincere. As long as you are open and act yourself without worrying what others are thinking, you will meet people who like you for who you are as cliche as that sounds. The bottom line is that a lot of people are scrum or just plain incompatible to you. BE YOURSELF and you WILL meet friends that love you for that. In fact, you will meet such good friends that they will be willing to love your flaws too.
Quit being such a pussy and man up. If people don't like you for who you are, then they're not worth being friends with.
It's not normal. It shows you're worried about being judged and that fear is probably holding you back from having deep friendships. How about focusing on enjoying the people you're with instead, and buying what you want to buy? See how you feel and whether you want to hang out with them more.
Your self esteem is obviously low. People will only judge you if that's all you think they'll do.
Loosen up, have some confidence in what you like and who you are and you'll be fine.
Im very self concious aswell
If people didnt judge ever
Id probably just walk around everywhere naked
But cuz people judge me and compare me to other people i feel way worse
Did u add foldgers in just to see what kind of reaction you would get out of people on here? Like what if I was like ew foldgers u weirdo would u stop drinking it lol. Get help
those things, no i wouldnt judge you. but other simple things like not washing your hands after being to the toilet, yeah i would judge you.
People judge people on silly things all the time, but just long enough till they get to know the real you!