Is it normal to want a hotwife relationship?

As long as you're not hurt, there's nothing wrong.

If thats what you're into and she likes it I dont think its that bad. Its not like you're killin babies or something.

A small segment of people (male and female) enjoy and engage in consensual poly relationships. Swingers, wife swapping, and other forms. Your hotwife concept seems to fit into those older names.

Its not wrong... but, its only a small minority of the population who consider it normal.

As for cheating... While its very true that the older people (and older genearations) that it was primarily a male dominated activity. Many studies for the current younger generation (below 30) indicate that in general that has balanced out its a lot closer to 50/50 for males and females for the younger generations...

Your just a cuck.

I like that you use cool sounding terms instead of just calling yourself a cuck. Very clever. Regardless, y’all kids have fun and be safe!

So... I've known enough women, couples and my own relationships to see that this type of stuff, as much as a fetish can be normal, hotwife, cuckold, stagging and polyamory stuff is normal

Hotwifing is not for the faint of heart. It is something best left to your wife to open the conversation. You just clarify what she has asked. "A re you really feeling a need or want to have sex with other guys while I watch? If she says she does, place the onus for finding her lover(s) but you get first right of refusal and she has to be open enough to tell what she is looking for. Most wives do not want to hurt their husband's feelings but some things need to be said.

If her fantasy or physical want or craving is for a man with a considerably larger erection, you have to be the bigger man in emotional strength and understand what she is saying.

Does she want to enjoy sex with much younger men like she's 35-55 and wants college guys between 18 and 24, ask her why that is her fantasy.

Is she really seeking a threesome and wants to include you? You must allow her to set boundaries. Many women fantasize about receiving a "DP"- Double Penetration. If she knows a man who might have a 4 or 5 inch erection with narrow 4" girth. She already knows you are to big for her to enjoy but he is comfortably just right. If it's going to really happen, talk with the guy and make sure he understands how to prepare her beforehand so it feels great right away. This is how my wife did it: We went to the home of one of my closest and most trusted friends who has only about 5" with 4.5" girth. He shaved off all his pubic hair and was smooth or trimmed very closely. I knew she needed time to relax and talk so she was comfortable with him and she felt the right chemistry.

I said I had to run to the store and would be back in about an hour. He began kissing and holding her, telling her how much he has wanted her and he felt honored she chose him for her first experience. They went into the bedroom and undressed each other. I actually drove away and parked around the corner so I could be close to her and watch how she responded to him. I quietly entered through the rear door and walked in my stocking feet.

Listening to her talk so openly and tell him how much she had hoped for it was very erotic because she was being herself and not parsing her words to make me happy. hen the ongoing chatter stopped I peeked in the open door. Both were completely naked and kissing passionately. He went down on her and made her cum twice and then used his fingers to work her "G-spot" and the several places she can cum being touched inside. She sucked him to get him excited but didn't want him to cum before they could do the deed. She licked and sucked his balls and kissed him all over.

G asked her to lay on her tummy and massaged her slowly and teased her ass with some pretend finger penetration. He licked all over her butt and lightly bit them before he touched her butthole with his tongue. She inhaled deeply and told him his tongue felt great. She spread her legs wide apart as he licked to relax her. He used silicone grade lube for inside her. Water based stuff gets absorbed and fades away. The bottle had a long 4-sided nozzle that he slowly pushed into her while squeezing the lube to the depth of the nozzle which she said felt good inside her. He used sex toy about average size to gently slide into her ass very slowly. Soon he was moving it in and out of her and she was lifting her hips to meet the nozzle and get the depth.

He changed to one well lubed finger while kissing her back or she would turn to pull him up to kiss her. I watched as he slowly pushed in a second finger (index) and felt her relax even more. I was surprised she actually had an orgasm because he knew what he was doing. He lubed between her cheeks and pressed the head of his cock against her ass, telling her, "I can feel it relaxing and opening itself." The plan was they were supposed to wait until I returned and joined them, but she lifted upward as G pushed into her. I could tell right when the cock of his head was past both her sphincters as he laid on her back kissing her and telling her her he could feel her so warn and tight around him.

I knew temptation would be too much! She began to life her ass toward him as he moved to an angle she could slide up and enjoy. After several minutes he pushed all he could into her and stopped to let her get used to having something in there. He said they should wait for me to get back but my wife said it felt too good and just not cum before that. He pumped into her slowly full depth inward and pulling out stopping and gently using the head to pull against he muscles around him. She was so turned on she texted me asking if they could play and be ready when I got back. I was already standing outside the door and I knew both of them were locked and connecting on an erotic plain. I texted back, "Of course, it all for you!"

Both of them got into it and she was making the hottest grunting sounds as he slammed into her cheeks and rotated his erection in circles inside her. G asked if he could take her while she was on her back Missionary style. She cracked me up when she said, "OK. I don't know how but you'll show me. It was just like Missionary Position but her legs were up higher with her knees bent over his shoulders. When she was breathing hard she told him how good it felt and she regretted not trying it before, but my co-k would not fit in there! I was so turned on I slipped out of my clothes ad stood in the hallways naked slowly jacking off.

About 15 minutes later my wife sent me another silent text asking how soon I'd be there because G was having to stop and start to avoid cumming. I said I was on my way but both of them just enjoy it, even if we have to start over. She looked into G's big brown eyes and he pumped and she moved her his in a circle up and down. It was so erotic to hear her say, "If I'm making you feel as good as you are me, give it to me. Cum in my ass." He was digging as deep as he could and I could tell by is grunts and breath he wanted to cum. He was kissing her when he started shaking and moaning. She said, "Don't freak out but I love you and you're making me cum. With her head shaking and mouth hanging open he pumped faster and then let out, "Ahhh Ohhhhhhh yeah I'm cumming in your ass, I'm cumming in your ass [her name]. She said, "Yeah you are and I love it. Go as long as you want." I texted her telling her I was back there. She replied, "He's fucking the hell out of me in the bedroom so hurry. I want you to fill my pussy!"

G was still hard owing it to a Viagra even though neither of us needed them. She told him to get on his back and she slid down on his cock as she laid back on his chest. I walked in naked and my hard-on felt to good being go full and hard. My wife said "Fuck me with him in my ass. I want to feel you both. It took a little bit of fidgeting and once I was able get all into her it felt great as I pumped on top. The only odd feeling was my balls hitting G's but I ignored it. I felt G's cock pushing against mine inside her and he told me my pumping was making him harder and it felt good. I was so overly excited it took me less than 6 minutes to cum inside my wife who just grunted saying she is too full and I was going too deep. As I pumped her my own cum was spattering back as I pulled out and it looked great going down G's balls and onto my wife's tummy! When I was done and finally slipped out it pulled out G too and my wife just laid there with what we filled her with running out and down he ass and legs onto the bed. G went to take a shower as we talked. She asked if she could play with G and I said yes. I got in the shower taking my time. When I got out he had my wife bent over the bed and was hammering her as if it was his last orgasm. She was squealing so loudly I closed the bedroom window. She got off again just as he did while he was pounding her so deep she was trying to push him back while still enjoying it. I just liked that they both had great orgasms and G was thanking me. I was surprised and didn't know what to do when suddenly G knelt down and took my cock into his mouth. It felt good and my wife was kissing me and stroking his hair. It lasted about 2 minutes and I later found out is was not a bisexual thing. He was apparently being submissive to me and my wife for allowing him to take my wife's "ass virginity" and that my cock was so big and "superior" to his. He wanted to make sure he would be invited back.

A few weeks later he asked to give me a "Brojob" and that was great because all I had to do was sit or lay and enjoy it. I don't know if mine qualifies as a "hotwife" story but G can take her any time she agrees but she calls him more because she enjoys being so submissive and receiving that G always give plenty of great foreplay but he wants her ass while the other side is left for me. She is always happy and relaxed and most times I just know even if she doesn't tell me. I don't feel I'm weak allowing my best friend to please my with, nor is she anything but the most awesome wife and girl who loves the sex she is getting! Thank you taking your time to read. I apologize for the length.
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Thank-you for the hotwife anklet honey. It sounds so much better saying I'm a hotwife than a married slut that cheats on her husband.

It's surprising how many men know that wearing a wedding ring and an anklet means I have sex with whomever I want.

There's no need to be embarrassed honey. Some guys are just wired that way. Lucky for you you married a woman that is willing to fuck other guys while you watch.

I wonder how many guys' pants that wedding ring you paid good money for has been inside now? Do you think she keeps it on, as she closes her fingers around all those different cocks and guides them inside her?

I can understand how this works but I couldn't cope with it, personally.

hotwifes aren't ok in my eyes.