Is it normal to want everyone to love me and to be jealous ?

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I am a female gym instructor , anyways .. i am not that pretty and not ugly either , i am brown skinned ,and my aim behind being a gym instructor is to be famous , i have a fan page of me on facebook with 212 fans and counting ,i also have more than one blog that i hide my identity in them but only those close to me know that i am behind them , and there is a blog that i praise myself in it , i praise my brown self in it ,saying that it's more than a cake and it goes far beyond a color , kinda like telling everyone that i am someone very very important and i love myself very much ,yet even though i am very smart ,cool ,popular ,extroverted ,thin, outgoing , know how to talk and write well , sociable ,talented ,know how to crack jokes and make others laugh , i get very jealous of some girls , even though i have the qualities i mentioned .I love it when girls (even if they are younger then me ) nicnkname me , yet i don't like to do that to younger girls , and say that why should i say "honey" to them as if they are kids , yet when giving a compliment or trying to sweet talk teens or young people i don't actually mean it , yet love people who give me all the love and attention . Am i normal ?

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Comments ( 17 )
  • dappled
    12 years ago

    It's more than a cake? You lost me at that point.

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    • Jen118584
      12 years ago

      Yep, lost at cake.

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      • dappled
        12 years ago

        Hehe, well, if we're going to get lost anywhere, I guess cake is quite a nice place to be lost!

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  • Jen118584
    12 years ago

    You seem pretty dumb.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Why do you say that ?

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      • Jen118584
        12 years ago

        Because this is barely even legible, half of it makes no sense, and you're obsessed with yourself.

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  • poisonandmore
    12 years ago

    tis normal.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      like in everyone does that , that's why you say normal , if so those who don't do that should do that , i guess ..

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    What exactly did you mean by the cake part? Lol

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Many things ,
      Fat girls who love to eat cake , thier life revolves around junk food and cake , life is more than "just" cake .

      The majority of the people in the country i am in love eating and especially cakes , there is more to it than cakes .

      Breaking the steriotype that black people love to eat cake , as all people do .

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  • Death_Rises
    12 years ago

    snobby

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  • seali001
    12 years ago

    Sounds like you are Narcissistic

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      yes i am as i said , also i think there is this girl who is has "inverted narcissim " , which means she only likes to have relationships with us narcisissts no matter how much abuse was inflicted on them in the past and now (my verbal abuse ) disguised as a joke and making fun of ,also being mean straight in the face .

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Yes after you said it i agree with you i am , the thing is in the country that i am in NO ONE admits that i am narcisstic except those who stopped seeing me or stopped liking me , i don't know why they don't see that i am narcisisstic , maybe my charm blinds thier perception or because the majority are school and college girls who are naive and can't really see what i really am , even though my narcsissim shines like the sun , i admit that ! , i have wrote in my facebook status that i have shaken hands with the leaders of the country i am living in , i have Michelle Williams as a friend on my wall , i always tell girls in my class 'Don't you want beyounce's body or shakira ?' .

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      • seali001
        12 years ago

        I have a family member that is this way. The thing is though, he's is seldom ever happy. He doesn't care about peoples feelings and spends all his time just entertaining himself with looking at stuff on the internet that will help his self image. I guess I just am so opposite that it's impossible to imagine not caring about people. I like the feeling of giving a hand or a compliment to somone whom I feel like really needs it. A lot of people are put off by people who think too much of themselves. If a person is truly worthy of such praise it will come from others, not from themselves. I just think we should always do our best and in doing that we will attract people who like us for who we really are, not who we are pretending to be. Being humble is a very attractive quality!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I'd say it's normal but why do you really care about being famous? In all honesty it sounds like your trying too hard. Just relax and be yourself.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      my narcisissim and psychopathic personality cares for the fame .

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