Is it normal to want my brother taken away...

My 22 year old brother sleeps on the couch and this morning I woke up to care for the cat because I hate when I hear him pissed at an innocent animal. Nope bad idea he slams stuff around doors etc scares the cat to running outside. I am forced to go back into my room so he doesn't get more angry and wake my sister. I'm 26 I pay 80% of this family of 4's bills. I can't let my old mom and sister with a seizure disorder go. I can't not be there for them and I can't leave them with him. He think he is too good to work and either gets fired or walks out of every job (in the past 4 years). Of course when he works he's unhappy and spends all his money on High dollar clothes when he could contribute. Help! His anger is tearing up my moms relationship with me. I hate being silent I can't hold it in. He's been a pain since age 3.

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  • Bateman89

    Kick the guy out, he’s being enabled. He’s a user and sounds pathetic. Sever him from your family as you would a rotten limb, cleanly and quickly

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  • Alduin

    As strong as the bond between brothers is it's always ok to say something along the lines of: Hey, get a job or get out. If you're paying 80% of the bills tell him he has to contribute or leave.
    If he gets angry call the 5-0

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  • e51pegasi

    If I were you I'd force the subject with your mother & sister. Tell them what you have posted here, that you love them both dearly & you simply cannot tolerate the situation any more. Tell them that you don't want to but if things don't change you are off.

    You are paying the vast majority of the bills, you should be entitled to peace & quiet at home. Plus your mother & sister deserve better.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I don't blame you one bit. Respect the feline!

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    • nikkiclaire

      Down vote. Your love of cats does amaze me tho. I love it. Luv dogs personally.

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  • nikkiclaire

    Stop being so bitchy and be nice

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