Is it normal to want to be caned
I fantasise about being caned and admit that it turns me on to look at a bottom being caned and the marks it leaves.The only problem is that i am not sure if i could take the pain.Are there any tips on coping with it and Would anyone with experiece care to tell me where i could find someone to do it preferably an understanding female as i am hetrosexual and would feel aroused by the thought of it....but i need someone to be understanding .