Is it normal to want to be caned

I fantasise about being caned and admit that it turns me on to look at a bottom being caned and the marks it leaves.The only problem is that i am not sure if i could take the pain.Are there any tips on coping with it and Would anyone with experiece care to tell me where i could find someone to do it preferably an understanding female as i am hetrosexual and would feel aroused by the thought of it....but i need someone to be understanding .

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  • Rose2012

    Well I've been caned by a Sir and it hurts like HELL but...what a rush. The sting goes in seconds but then you're reminded just how unbearable it is with another stroke. It's strange that I felt better for it AND wanted to rid myself of bad habits I had. The most ive had is 12 but the first guy was a sadist who drew blood. The next time was six and only across the bottom, never anywhere else! I actually asked for a couple of strokes at my next session as a reminder to be good. It's crazy but its a desire you cannot explain.
    It will hurt to sit and may leave well WILL leave marks but they fade.

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  • Ben60

    I am a person who NEEDS to be caned hard for genuine offences. It clears the air and gives me absolution.

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  • Jweezee

    Spit on the sidewalk in singapore

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  • darkred

    Back when I was in school I had the record for receiving the most times paddled. I just make a joke out of it.
    I'd try caning just to see if I could handle it. It could be a fun challenge.

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  • magic7

    Cane fields grow in creeks and river beds in California. The cane is smaller in diameter but still gives a great snap. My wife and I went into the Ventura riverbed from the beach as beach goers wondered what we were doing. We had a bag and were quite scantily clad, my wife in a bikini and I had a Speedo. Hiking in several hundred feet for privacy we found a sandy clearing and put down our blanket. My wife had me cut two switches four foot long. She had me sun naked for an hour warming up my bare ass sunshine pink. Both of us had read about caning and my wife was excited to give me a taste. My wife announced she couldn’t wait any longer making me get on my feet bend over and place my hands in my knees. Unafraid of giving me pain she began whistling the switch across my bare cheeks up and down my ass until it was crisscrossed with welts. She even whipped my bare thighs. I cried out after every snap of the cane burning my flesh. My wife was fully satisfied punishing me in this manner telling me to bring the switches with us. It was one burning switching because this flimsy cane can be whipped dozens of time over bare flesh instead of just a mere dozen strokes of an English cane. She found later that it was even more useful caning over a just strapped or paddled ass as well. We hiked out of the cane and I was sure some nosey beach goers saw the stripes on my thighs but never said a word especially when I was carrying the canes I was whipped with. We repeated Beach caning several times whenever we found cane browsing. It was always humiliating walking home in my suit with my flesh covered with welts sticking out of the suit. I reccomend any mistress to take her slave down river for a caning.

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  • Kres

    I love to be caned and been punished many times in fairly strict circumstances and dressed to suit as though I was in class. I ve also caned girls bums and taken every advantage to kiss their Welted cheeks afterwards and taken in all essences. Love to chat with others. Regulation at mail dot com

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  • essexboy

    very very normal. I am caned regularly and hard by a retired headmaster and a professional domme lady friend. Be careful as the marks can last for several weeks. I would say to just experiment to start with. Most people in my experience find the idea of caning and spanking a real turn on. The lady who canes me developed a problem with tennis elbow and was sent to see a specialist who told her it was caused by repetitive strain and asked what she did to strain herself. She simply answered "I cane people for a living" and the Indian doctor and two nurses who were also present could not wait to hear more details and asked her all sorts of questions. She said it was really funny and they all loved it.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Look it up. There are some doms that are experience enough so it won't leave welts, but pain wise I really don't know.

    If you have a high pain tolerance you should be able to take it. In sessions there's something know as a "safeword". Make it easy to remember and say it when you can't take the pain anymore.

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  • munchyman01uk

    Lots of people enjoy this. Just take a look at all the porn videos of BDSM around. They wouldnt be there if people didnt fantasize about it. There are also sex clubs specifically for this sort of thing. Or you could just hire an escort to do it for you.
    Not had much experience with this my self (only a few cheeky slaps from my gf lol) but these things are easy to find thanks to google! Just type in "sex clubs (your city)" or "escorts (your city)"

    Go NUTS! :)

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