Is it normal to want to be someones punching bag?

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i dont know how to explain this. i admit i am pretty self-deprecating, loathing, and i do feel guilty and apologize for things that are not my fault. im aware of it but i cant help it. i feel guilt almost always.

so, yeah. id rather be so eones punching bag. someone to be beaten or just abused whenever th other person needs to let off some steam, this is not a kink thing, i get no sexual pleasure from this. i just feel better knowing id be of use to somebody, if even not in the best of ways.

just not any person though. i dont know. i know this isnt healthy but i cant help it. plus everyone i know is too kind and sweet and for whatever reason, they like me and would never hurt me physically.

i dont know what to do. i want to be someones punching bag. it would make me and the other person feel a lot better. i feel bad, and im sorry but i dint know what to do.

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  • spitz
    10 years ago

    I used to go in the bad parts of town and curse at groups of people. Three times I was severely beaten and was taken to a hospital with broken bones. The last time I was beaten with weapons and had reconstructive surgery. I used to be a little odd.

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  • Shnaz
    10 years ago

    Marry an alcoholic.

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  • PattyTheSailor
    10 years ago

    This isn't normal. Something tells me you have masochistic tendencies.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      It doesn't excite me or anything, I really can't explain it. I just feel better knowing I'd be useful to somebody in some way. I have no talents so it's not like I can do anything good. I can't do anything. right so I figure, why not make somebody else happy by letting them hurt me whenever they're angry, sad, or just need something to hurt idk

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  • AmberThorne
    7 years ago

    You shouldn't do this sort of thing. You're a person, not a piece of property. If they want a punching bag, get an actual punching BAG, not a punching person.

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    • AmberThorne
      7 years ago

      And whether it's normal or not... Well, I see it as normal, but unnecessary.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    No afraid to show your,name it is not fucking normal, why don't you ask the first person u c if this is normal? They'll laugh at u. Now if your into S&M that's one thing but to allow your self to be abused shows that you really need mental help!

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    • AmberThorne
      7 years ago

      Dayum. Calm yo tits. 0_0

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    • Caity21Lifee
      10 years ago

      Dude.... seriously. Wtf

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      You don 't have to be such a fucking bitch about it. Calm your crusty titties.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Go see a Physcatirist! Hurry!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I take it you don't think this is normal

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Sad.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Care to go into. Ore detail?

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        Well it looks like you don't like yourself very much and that in and of itself it quite sad indeed. How long have you felt this way? Have you ever tried to get help for your problem?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          Like myself? I never really thought about that but I guess I don't. I didn't think people were supposed to like themselves anyways. And I'm nlt sure, i've felt this way for a while but never really uh..."admitted" to it until recently. And since i can't find anyone to treat me this way I feel pretty useless. I'm kind of haply though, if that makes sense?

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          It is sad that you don't snart anymore. :(

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          • RoseIsabella
            10 years ago

            Don't worry it's fall allergy season so I should get another one soon.
            * let's slip a froggy little bubble fart* Bloop.

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            • robbieforgotpw
              10 years ago

              Bloop
              Ahahahaha
              A girl after my own heart
              *powersharts his shoe full

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    10 years ago

    You do sound very nice. I could never hurt you.
    If you really want to be punching bad you have to be able to "dish out". If you insult or even punch someone in a "humorous" way, they can have a comeback.
    When I'm with other guys we "insult" each other all the time just for fun. I think that can be very healthy.

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