Is it normal to want to have sex but be afraid because your first time

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My new boyfriend and I want to have sex but I still have emotional issues from a past relationship where I lost my virginity at a really young age. Is it normal to be afraid of sex?

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  • Ramit10
    12 years ago

    Well you said your new bf so that means he has only been around for a month or 2. Dont go around having sex with every new bf unless you are aiming to be a slut. Both people should love each other before you have sex also not to mention be at least 17-18.Chances are if he is a new bf and he has already asked about having sex then thats prob all he wants from you.

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    • amyballack
      12 years ago

      I said new bf as opposed to the old one but we've been together about six months now.

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  • zenji
    12 years ago

    Tell him everything, all your fears, then decide together. If he understands, you'll both be happy, what every you decide.

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  • seeking
    12 years ago

    You have to be smart and careful. I believe it is important to know each other better before you have sex with him. There are many guys that are only after one thing. It should be special and with someone you love. If you are questioning it so much then you know you aren’t ready

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