Is it normal to want to kill your ex?

Be patient and the negativity will vanish soon enough.

Don't feed it with more negative thoughts, it's not good for you or others around you.

Think to yourself that "I hope she's OK, I hope she's enjoying herself and i'll find some other woman to love"

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I hated my ex too, like really hate here :- )

But then , years after, I suddenly realized that everything that happened in my life was my fault. And then, one night when I saw her I tried to love her as if she was a new person with no past, as if it was my responsibility and guess what? All the negativity dissapeared, all the attachment dissapeared and I felt stupid for all the bad things I had told her. It was nice to see her laughing and smiling around me after all the "WAR" that was between us. We were like two new people. Because I changed, not because I forced her to change.

I love her now. But i'm not attached to her and we are not together. And now I know how to really love because I know it's all my fault what happened.

Forget her, but from now on imagine your new girlfriends as a reflection of your own emotions so whenever something bad happens, think if it is your fault to.

Just my advice, works for me.

I'm 35. Any woman my age who would allow a 19 year old boy to move in with her and to keep him as a toy for a little while is a bitch.

What she did was wrong and I'm guessing the real reason she broke up with you is because she knew it, but of course she's not going to say that to you. Mostly because it's too easy for you to refute simply by saying you don't feel violated (which she did do), but partly because nobody wants to admit to being morally in the wrong (which is what she was).

It's okay to feel very angry at her for what she did, even to the point of becoming homicidal. But if it's making *you* upset to feel that way, then it's time to address *your* feelings as something separate from her and her issues. By this point, it's not *her* that you're upset about, it's how you *feel*. Thankfully, that's something you can work on.

Many of us have had broken hearts and the pain is so excruciating that we just want to let it out.Its really tough I know, but you will get through this.Do something for yourself, something positive, to move all that energy into.You know there is going to be other people in your life that will deserve that love you have to give.Plus the bonus is that can use all that stuff you learnt while you were with her with the next person and 6 hours will seem like 5minutes compared to what you will then be doing.

you were screwing an old lady, she wasn't worth it, and it's normal i hate my ex to the core as well, i've also killed him many times in my sleep.

FUCK THT BITCH! GO AFTER THAT FUCKING WHORE AND KILL HER!!! YOU NEED TO HAVE THE GUTS TO KILL HER! OTHERWISE SHE IS GOING TO BE BEING FUCKED BY THE OTHER NIGKA! YOU NEED TO KLL HER!!! KELL HER KILL HER KILL HER KILL HER HER KILL HER HER KILL HER HER KILL HER HER KILL HER HER KILL HER HER KILL HER ! ! !

Ignore the stupid comment of Old Memory. You don't necessarily need psychiatric help. The manifestation of the emotion you are feeling, namely destroying that which is causing you pain, is a deeply-embedded human response. And, from an entirely detached point of view, it is logical. But don't lose sight of the fact that your ego has taken a deep bruising blow. The anger you feel is a very primitive and powerful human reaction, it demands your attention. However, it's also a very honest reaction, uncluttered by thought or intellectual rigour, and that makes it very seductive. The danger here is getting caught in a loop which shapes, or rather distorts, your view of relationships and the opposite sex. I speak from painful and shameful experience.

Forget her, Start a new life, new you.... Start doing thigs which you'd thought you would ever do, She sounds like as if she was negative impact on you, Even though she did temporarily love you and leave her. Show the middle finger to her ! You are stronger than you think !!!

its perfectly normal, she used you and then left you, like she didnt realise you were younger when you 2 got together ??!!

i recently contacted a doctor named GBOCO i find his email: [email protected] on the internet so i decided to contact him for help in my relationship he ask me to send him my details which i did after that he told me that the gods reveled something to him and he told me everything that was reveled to him and he told me what he was going to do that after three days my relationship became sweet again and the person that was behind my problem came to begin me for forgiveness which my mother in-law now i and my love are happy again including my mother in-law.... thanks to Dr. GBOCO.

I'm feeling very similar to the way you are. It's something cold, it's not anger, or maybe it is but, not in the sense that I want to shout at him or say mean things. I realize that he wants to live, and I just want to see him unhappy when he realizes that he is going to die. I'm almost scared of my thoughts sometimes, because frankly I'm just a lazy person so, I wouldn't plan this sort of thing like, I knw I don't want to do this.. but, I'm almost scared to ever see him again that I might end up doing this, without so much as batting an eyelid.. So, I don't know.. On the other hand, I really like what Aargh has written.. I hope I am able to get through this..

I've shared your sentiment.

Normal, I wanted to kill my first girl freind after she borke up with me. Many people want to tear their exs in half for making them feel bad after making them feel so good. DON'T kill her. Think about it all you want though, thats good for you. Hope this helped

Not normal. First of all she is 15 years older than you which is normal. And second of all wanting too kill her is not normal. U need pyschiatric help