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This girl I know wanted to lose her virginity before she turned 15. What do you think?
It's probably the pressure to lose it, not actually wanting to lose it. I'm sure all of her friends have lost theirs so she feels left out. Hopefully she matures up and waits until she's older.
I think having sexual desires even in the young teens is normal, however what I find not normal is the fixation on doing it by a certain age. I wonder whats behind her need to do it by then. Sex is supposed to be about love not putting a notch on your headboard.
It is normal, because she is still a teenager, and she's just following her hormones. But, she should be smart and wait.
Hell no! If she does, hopefully she'll be smart enough to use protection or she'll end up having a shitload of consequences.
I'm in my late teens and I don't feel like losing it would be worth what little time I have. Even if I had more time, I still would wait to do it. She at least should finish school, get a degree and be mature enough before she decides to lose it. If she's under pressure, try to give her friends that would have a more mature and positive influence on her.
Sex is great.
A natural joy given to all humans, and animals.
Without it , we'd be extinct.
The advantage of being a human with modern tech.
Have sex all you want, and no problems.
Just use protection.
The church restricted sex cause they had no birth control, and men were worried over the size thing. So they wanted a virgin.
Now days, get your freak on!
I even think 15 is a little late, I was 13 myself. Never had any regrets.
Ya it's normal but not always the best idea.... I lost mine when was 14 and think it's one of the best stories ever
It's normal. But I lost mine at 14 and I completely regret (I'm a female) and I thought I was SO in love with the guy. It's not what you expect it to be. And first is the worst. But if you think your ready, you make choices for yourself. Just be ready for the consequence. I wish I woulda waited. Maybe not till marriage but maybe for someone who actually cared about me!
I didn't really have a choice, I had sex with a boy at 12, he was 14 I am a girl btw, i didn't have a choice really, he and his mars where there and well half way through I started to enjoy it a bit, so I guess it's normal
It's normal, teenagers have every right to have sex with who they want just make sure nobody gets pregnant
Im just gonna suggest she find a trusting female friend and have sexual interactions with her, like fingering one another and more.
peer pressure would do it im 19 and a virgin and get picked on for it but i dont really care what other people think of me they can kiss my country ass i just want to wait until i find a good one that im with for a little while
it is completely normal to want to at that age, hell, i remember i wanted to when i was 11, but dont do it, my mom got pregnant with me when she was 14 because she wanted to have sex to early, and im grateful because if she hadnt i most likely wouldnt be here right now, but she still did it way too early, abd she had to drop out of high-school b-cuz of it. so DONT DO IT!!!
Take it from somebody who actually did Its FUCKING X10 (too lazy to write it out 10 times)STUPID I have regreted it every day scince So in short DONT
U will mature much faster f u do. By the time u reach 18 you'll be nothing but a fat dried up burlap sack that even your step dad won't hit.
i wld say pretty normal . but PLEASE try & put her off cuz she will REGRET it after . far better to wait till 1/ she.s legal & 2/ she.s really happy with someone . dont buckle under peer pressure ! one nite stands = WORTHLESS ! gd luck with it & plz let us know how it goes ok ( like in ur tryin to stop her ) kane :o)
Its normal yes, cause I 16 and I feel the same way, but DONT DO IT!!! There is always the risk of getting pregnant even with protection. You dont want to lose everything you wanted to be just cause you wanted to try it. wait until you get married TO THE RIGHT GUY. I can't put it any more simple
I recently went through a big stage when my brother tried to commit suicide and went to the mental hospital and I was so depressed I felt like I needed to lose my virginity to actually feel anything anymore. I know, sounds super sad, but at least I didn't go through with it, right?
tell her she should wait, seriously. she will make a dumb mistake like i did when i was her age
I know you have urges and you think everyone else is doing it but i strongly suggest you wait until you find someone you love, they will make it more meaningful.