Is it normal to want to mess with people's heads?

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Okay so I'm a 19 year old female, I have a 3 month old daughter and am in a relationship. I don't remember when this started..when I was reallt young some time. Anyways I just love lying. I like messing with people's heads, making them believe things that aren't true and whatnot. I want to stop but dunno how. My relationship with my baby's father is based on lies. And now I'm talking ro this other guy, and I just get some kind of high when I talk to him because I'm leading him on with no intent of being with him. I've done this to so many people without any remorse and wanted to know if its normal..thanks.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    People like you aren't as shrewd as you think.

    It's not that you're smart, you're just too dumb to see that everyone around recognizes at some point what you are.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    ...I know girls like you. I tend to do the exact same thing they do to others back to them. Watching how fragile they are to their own dose of medicine is far more fun. If only I knew you.

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  • Ironspine57
    11 years ago

    Flashback. You sound just like my youngest daughter. She also had a child at an early age and was a habitual lier. I hope you seriously find some professional help before you wind up like her.her lying caused all kinds of problems because she too thought it was fun and didn't see the harm it causes. We now have her daughter and are raising her for the last seven years. No one in the family can trust my daughter, no one noes if she is lying or being truthful. We all assume she is lying anytime her mouth is moving. Her daughter is beginning to see and understand that mommy is a lier and can't be trusted.i feel so sorry for you and hope you take the unitive to turn your life around before its to late for you both.

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  • normaltyisasin
    11 years ago

    This is called a mythomania and yes it is normal to an extent. Some people feel that they have to lie and exaggurate things to please people and make themselves look better. But what you have is not too normal I would say. I would go to a therapist and talk about my problems and NOT lie to the therapist about the problems. ALSO, what makes my mind all blown now is that you might even be lying about how much you are lying since you are lying all the time. You sure are good at messing with peoples heads.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    I'm glad there are parents like you out there who are so keen on providing their children with stable homes.

    Seriously. If you won't do it for the sake of your own life, at least do it for the child. A lot of women I know do this and then they end up in bad places. If you don't care enough about yourself not to endanger yourself and your relationship, at least do it for your child, whose life depends almost entirely on you and she doesn't deserve the punishment that you're risking bringing upon the both of you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Bwahahaha you no lie so good cause you got da vagina and emotionSes!!

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    • chehaleadah
      11 years ago

      Wow! Get an education you redneck lower-class scum! They shouldn't let anyone with an IQ under 90 breed.

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      • shade_ilmaendu
        11 years ago

        Think you oughta turn your sarcasm filter on sweetie. And just saying, I don't think there's anything that makes me want to classify someone as scum more than judging someone who's had fewer opportunities in life than you have.

        You just took a shot at every poor person in this country and people with cognitive dysfunction at the same time, how do you feel about yourself?

        Guess we shouldn't let anyone with a cognitive disorder breed since their IQ is low, hmm?

        Get your head out of your ass sweetheart. I'm usually only this harsh when I'm having a bad day, but I'm gonna make a special exception for you :)

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        See how good I am?

        With little more than a rudimentary display you were fooled. Little more than a verbal aberration will convince anyone of false truths if they lack perception.

        You could however be forgiven for your hackneyed response, as the convergence of imbeciles is quite common here at IIN.

        I would caution forbearance before writing your responses. Being pragmatic towards uncovering the truth behind my remarks rather than insolent would make you appear less the fool.

        Your querulous nature could be put to good use, should you loose the spurious remarks and focus on the ability to scrutinize.

        As it stands now, you are rancorous through remarks that reveal your dull and prosaic beliefs. You mention IQ at your own expense, not mine. For a battle of wits between you and I would be evanescent, and in my favour.

        Did you honestly think your remarks would have a deleterious effect on me you fool. I will not abdicate my position as chief cat around here, capitulate and I shall spare you.

        Yours sincerely, Mr Tommythecat, MD.

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        • Mraaronbill
          11 years ago

          Brilliant ! Enough said

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      • Energy
        11 years ago

        Agreed.

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  • manii92
    11 years ago

    Ur a compulsive liar and u like it?.. Wow!

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    I hate to be stereotypical, but why is it that mostly women have this trait?

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Forever alone. :'(

    Unfortunately your child will grow up not trusting you either. Worse still they will think this is normal behaviour and may do it too.

    It's not easy being a young parent (I'll take a stab here and say single) but your only making things more complicated for yourself.

    Go straight to therapy, do not pass go, do not collect $200.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Wow you are a real bitch. Even if you have the temptation to fuck with people please don't. You have something saying this is wrong or else you would not be asking. You can not stop because you are entangled in a web of lies. Try telling the truth for once and maybe give the child to the dad. He deserves a better wife and the child deserves a better mother. You are a complete bitch and go to hell. It is one thing to be fucked up but it is worse bringing a 3 month old child into this.

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  • kylecation
    11 years ago

    bitch.

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  • ohplease
    11 years ago

    get help

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  • NotStrangeBird
    11 years ago

    You should get into politics or law.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yes i do it like today is the 30th of November and when i say bye to my work colleagues i will be saying see you next month because it will be the 3rd of December when i see them next.

    Its funny how many people get confused by this.

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  • thanksforthefreecar
    11 years ago

    That's not cooil and its not good you have a baby.

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  • Shakethatsaltshakerx3
    11 years ago

    I feel more comfortable lying than telling the truth but I don't get a thrill from lying.. Even though it's wrong it's probably pretty normal.

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  • #Yoloswagg
    11 years ago

    Yoo ahr a soshiohpathh

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    • losthere
      11 years ago

      why have many people thumbed you down when you are spot on..?o.O i don't get it....

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        11 years ago

        Because he obviously can't spell.

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        • NotStrangeBird
          11 years ago

          How can we trust your opinion anyway?

          The phonetically correct-weird spelling is his thing here and elsewhere. Pay attention, dammit.

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