Is it normal to wonder about revenge.
Is it normal to think about revenge? Who can let go? Truly let go?
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Is it normal to think about revenge? Who can let go? Truly let go?
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I can't | 14 | |
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Letting go and getting revenge are two different things. I am good at letting go of things enough to not want to take revenge on someone, but that doesn't mean I forget every wrong done to me. Those things that I won't forget are simply reminders not to trust people with certain things or put too much effort into their wellbeing. Sometimes they get cut - out of my life, that is.
Depends on what its for.
Some things can't be let go.
Most things can though.
Seeking revenge is sowing bad karma or at least it has been in my life experience. If I just let it be God and the universe work it out with the other person. I don't believe that anyone ever escapes their karma. Just cause I don't see someone whose done me wrong get their comeuppances doesn't mean they don't get it in time.
Karma (Sanskrit) in Indian religions is the concept of "action" or "deed", understood as that which causes the entire cycle of cause and effect (i.e., the cycle called saṃsāra). Originating in ancient India, Karma is part of Hindu, Jain, Buddhist and Sikh philosophies.
Bull crap, when people are mean to me or lie. There is this person who lies at work all the time, and speaks to the employees like crap and then changes their tune when their boss is around. Does the clicky mangement, and treats those who kiss their butt better than those who work and comein on time and don't call of. Come to find out she stoled another employees husband. She would schedule that employee on the afternoon shift so she can spen time with him, yuck. Where is her Karma... So no I don;t believe in Karma. I infact feel bad for the lady who lost her husband, had to pay her house byherself and finish paying of the wedding, where is the karma.
You're very wise; that's exactly what I'm currently studying in my religion class. o_O
Revenge is sort of a self perpetuating scenario, if you are not prepared to take it to an ultimate end.
Check out the Hatfield/McCoy feud.
Letting go is certainly much more healthy with much less chance of jail time, but not nearly as satisfying.