Is it obnoxious or offensive to have a big bulge if you cant help it?

hello , i recently started a job that requires me to wear standard work attire ( slacks and tucked in collared shirt). I bought normal fitting loose comfortable pants but they still produce a giant noticeable bulge in the front. i get simple looks and even dissaproving or offended looks from all people regardless of gender whether i like it or not. ive tried briefs and boxer briefs and even looser pants to maybe cover it up but it ddnt work so its just who i am. my question is not whether i am comfortable with my body but if other people are(doesnt truly matter just wondering if its normal). Do women find it offensive or wierd to see a larger than normal package/bulge?? can it cause anger or dissapproval to older people?? have any gifted / or voluptuous women gotten some offended looks for their large breast? has this happened to any other guys?

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  • randomjelly

    They probably have shitty looks on their faces because they got caught checking out your huge mangina!

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  • lasagna

    I don't think it's a bad thing! ha. But yes, women do have a similar problem. Girls with large breasts tend to get looked down upon or thought as sluts or whores.

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  • Drakonski

    Just society's prejudice against the male form, nothing you can do about it but hope that the human species eventually grows up and learns to live with sexuality and stops being offended by a man's anatomy.

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  • Allistalla

    Tie it down with a belt thatswhat my guy freinds does

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  • redhearts

    I wish you worked with me. LOVE a big bulge! The problem is people think you are trying to show it on purpose. Dude, you must be hung like a horse! I love it!

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    • Paigiepoo

      I will hold my hat or a backpack in front as needed. Sometimes the more I'm aware of my bulge the worse it gets and it sucks.

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  • ghostrider5150

    I think that many of the looks might be that some think that its wood that you've got and not just a regular big hang. women seem to think that there is no way its that big on a dangle and feel your a perv or something. I get the same thing. I over hear some saying stuff like "ya he's shown off and he knows what hes doing etc. but I say whatever.

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  • mason11

    you are a lucky git , i dont see the problem you have , i would welcome your problems

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  • teehee

    If no one's said anything yet i doubt they ever will. I don't think a big bulge is a bad thing lol not many women do :P
    you could try a jock strap sort've thing if u still wanted to try and keep it down. good luck :)

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  • digitalbroken

    Since nobody said anything about it, they'd likely be just as embarrassed as you to bring it up.

    Self-respecting individuals would not laugh at something like that. People uncomfortable with themselves might, but that's not your fault.

    In fact, when people do give you those looks, you should feel proud. They wouldn't have seen your bulge in the first place if they weren't looking at your pants, and chances are they are likely just not as well-endowed as you.

    I think having to explain why there were looking at your crotch in the first place would be a deterrent to most people mentioning anything about it to you. And if it's someone you don't mind looking there anyway, then you should be happy knowing they would have no doubts about your manliness :)

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  • imrighturwrong

    People check out my boobs all the time! I can't help if they're above average size. And you can't really help the size of what's in ur pants. If people look, so what! Let them enjoy the view.. lol! As long as ur covered then there is nothing to worry about. It's not like u wear super form fitting or tight pants on purpose. Really, what are people gonna do? Stop you and say "Excuse me sir, ur cock is too big for ur pants. Please tape ur buldge down!"

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  • Yamaguchi

    I'm not sure if you know what voluptuous means.. unless, of course, you're talking sexually.

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