Is it possible to get out of friend zone with best friend?

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Is it possible? They are the kind of person who used to have casual sex often but they stopped that for 2 years now they're starting to mature more really quickly so I wonder is it possible theyd want to date me if they start realizing they want to date someone?

For years they said they're not into dating at all because it leads to heart break so instead they had casual sex with people while we were friends but they didn't like the aftermath. They said it felt nice emotionally for the hour or so but then after they felt bad but then they said they felt it wasn't them anymore so they forced themselves to stop and haven't done it for a long time.

Now they talk about how it would be nice one day to have a family and they say I'm amazing all the time and we spend almost all free time together. I love him and we miss each other a lot when we don't see each other for a week or more so much we end up crying and embracing in a hug. Then we usually sleep in the same bed together not sexually but we just spend the night and sleep together.

I know they're attracted to me. I don't find them too attractive physically but I don't care I love who they are as a person. But they don't express desire to date me so I wonder if best friends can get out of friend zone? When I mention my dates I go on he gets upset and tells me not to tell him about it because he doesn't want to know.

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  • Sanara
    2 years ago

    Your story sounds like there may be hope for a romantic relationship. Its a maybe, if they seem to show genuine interest. But if it goes on for a long time without going anywhere, they may simply be manipulating you to think there is hope when they dont want it with you.

    But in almost every case, the only way to get out of frienzone is called "leave". By the time you're close friends they already know you well enough to know they just aren't interested romantically/sexually. And its really up to the person being "friendzoned" if they value friendship by itself enough to stay regardless.

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  • Anonquestionsduh
    2 years ago

    The “friend zone” is such crap. I wish people would start realizing how much it hurts to think you have a friend, only to find out you were only a conquest to them.

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