Is it really such a bad thing to be a people pleaser?

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More specifically I just can't help myself when I start dating a girl to do good things for her.
Like I want to give her a foot massage if her feet hurt a back massage if her back hurts, if she's hungry I want to buy her food, if she wants something I want to make it happen.

Now I'm not completely off the deep end, I do have some sensibility to not do anything she wants like an little obediant dog, but even when I don't I want to. But I certainly lean that way heavily and I just can't help it, it brings me happiness to bring her happiness. But is it such a bad thing? I feel like it's just in my nature to want to take care of her and provide but simoltaneously it can be a bad look like shes just got me wrapped around her finger. Like FUCK why can't I just love you, why is it that girls tend to go for guys that act like they don't care. 🙃🙃🙃

Yes it's a bad thing 1
It depends 3
No it's a good thing 4
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  • allialli
    2 years ago

    i think women go for bad guys because they can’t find any good ones, and when they finally do they say shit like “women only want guys that don’t care for them”

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  • MandMs52
    2 years ago

    Wanna marry me? I need a massage now!

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  • SkullsNRoses
    2 years ago

    It’s only a bad thing when you’re doing it to the point it becomes detrimental to yourself.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    Its not a bad thing to be like that but its true a lot of girls get turned off by it.

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    • litelander8
      2 years ago

      Turned off by readily available massages...?

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      • 1WeirdGuy
        2 years ago

        nice guys finish last

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