Is it strange to get married to a gay man as a straight female?

As a biman if they have kids then they had sex at some point so he's not gay he's bi. But that doesn't mean he's still interested in her. Very unfair of him to not tell her before they were married. My wife knew and still wanted to marry me.

Two questions:

1. When did both couples get married?
2. When did gay marriage become legalized in your country?

If the marriages were set up before gay marriage was officially a thing it might have been a convenience thing. A lot of gay people used to force themselves into straight marriages.

Its kind of wholesome to hear someone still puts their kids first today.

1. Yes it is weird. Just why
2. 15 year olds can not date they are minors.

Maybe he has very low sex drive. In that case he could tolerate marrying a woman as he wouldn't want sex very often anyway and it would work as long as he platonically loved her and could happily share a life with her as friends. I'm not sure why someone who KNOWS they're gay would marry someone of the opposite gender still though, unless it's just because they find it too difficult to find a partner of the same gender. I don't see what the woman gets out of it either unless she's asexual and only desires sharing a life with someone mostly platonically. I know it's common, especially for women, to realize they're gay after years of marriage and having sex with men but never enjoying it. That happens because of how many people grow up in very "straight" communities hence never realize they could be gay because it was never an option, and so they just assumed their deep feelings of friendship with people of the opposite gender was romantic love. That's a whole other situation though and most would probably get divorced after such a realization.

Sounds like maybe they did it out of pressure? I love where I grew up, but I'd be lying if I said there weren't some very stupid cultural pressures. People here would probably see it as a huge positive that gay men ended up marrying straight women, but I just see it as sad resignation for all 4 people involved

Is it possible that he just started liking men?

well, marriage isn't necessarily romantic. you can marry your best friend if you want to. there's no rule that says you can't.

I could see that tbh if they both have a low sex drive, basically just staying together cuz the (non-sexual) compatibility, maybe they even let each other fuck other men on the side just to fill their needs.

Is it possible that the couple who always knew the man was gay got married because they needed the benefits?

If the man is gay then it wouldn't make him gay it would make him more bi if he likes or married a woman.