Is it the right thing to do in my situation?

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My best friend got mad at me. I tried to explain, she told me that I'm lying. I stopped explaining, she won't talk to me. And today she said "Just f*** off!" to me when I tried to approach her in school.

After school, I texted her, "Did I do something wrong?" She answered with 3 youtube video. All of them were about suicide. I thought she was not mad anymore. And it's her new interest. (Her interest were kinda... weird. But me too) so I answered "Is this your new interest?"

Then she answered me with a photo. I replied her with the same photo, and said "Never think I feel the same? I just hold it in, that's all."

Is this the right thing to do? (My reply to her)
At first I wanted to say something harsher, "Why are you always thinking about your pain? Cant you understand that you also hurt me by doing this? Is this world revolves around you? I do feel the same. You are just too focused to your own pain so you didnt notice my pain." But I know this will hurt her even more.

Am I supposed to say/do something different?
Like for example, ignoring her, or saying sorry? But I said sorry all the time and she thinks I am lying to her (again)

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Sounds like she's trying to get you to go away and just doesn't have the guts to say it right out loud. If I were you, that's exactly what I'd do. 'Hasta the bye bye', as some movie character once said.
    With friends like that, who needs enemies?

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    She sounds selfish and or very self centered. Your probly not even like a real person to ger just a puppet.

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