Is it unreasonable to ask a guy not to masterbate?

I recently moved into an off campus apartment with two other girls and a guy and I don't want to live with a guy who masterbates. I'm a lesbian and men in general make me uncomfortable so I want to ask him to not watch porn or masterbate in the house.

He keeps his door locked 24/7 and I unlock and open it every chance I get because it makes me nervous, and I walked in on him jacking off in bed once. I could never imagine masterbating in a place where other people live. Would I be wrong if I asked him to stop?

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  • Pseodonihm

    I would like to know. How would you feel if he constantly monitored you? Watching everything that you do. Breaking into your room when it's locked. Also are you aware that when you go home to stay with your parents they might have sex. Maybe you should ask them not to, since the thought of a male having an orgasm disturbs you.

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  • charli.m

    So find somewhere else to live.

    You sound like an intrusive bitch. It's none of your business. It doesn't concern you.

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    • nikkiclaire

      I agree, not to mention you are breaking in to someones room. Have some manners.

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      • charli.m

        Yup. OP is either a cunt or a troll.

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    • Wow you sound nice :/

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      • charli.m

        I'm not the one breaking into someone's room and infringing on their personal freedom and rights. But whatever.

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  • justbecause11

    Yes, you have every right to ask him to stop if it makes you uncomfortable. I also agree that you should break into his room every chance you get.

    This does mean, however, that he too has the right to ask you to stop masturbating and watching porn. It also allows him to break into your room when ever he has the chance because he's straight and lesbians might make him uncomfortable.

    I suggest you either grow the fuck up or move the fuck out. You sound like one of those women who hate men simply because they are men. I think the definition of misogyny should be changed to include the views of women like you.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    You would be very wrong to ask him to stop. What he does in his own private time is none of your business. I'm a woman that likes women too, but that gives me no right to control people and deprive them of their freedom. Lol

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  • MR.mr

    wtf you're breaking into his room and you're saying he's making you nervous? Think about how you're making him feel.

    Also be glad he goes into his room and locks the door, I've unfortunately known guys who were not so courteous and had other friends who've told me beyond nightmare stories of guys they've delt with.

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  • Bimarc

    What is wrong with you ? It's not your place to tell a man or woman what they can or can not do . You need to get your own place to live.

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  • nikkiclaire

    So you hate guys and hate guys masterbating yet you break into his room to "walk in" on him. Well done.

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  • Hopefulmd

    Unless you have been assaulted in the past or have PTSD there is no excuse for this. Don't have a man as a roommate.

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  • xfg-48

    I guarantee he's watching you at night and touching himself, it's just what we do as men. He may even have a couple cameras set up in your room.

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  • UnabashedUser

    If I were him, I'd take a sheet of notebook paper, and then pick my nose. I'd put the pickings on the paper and then draw an arrow to the biggest one and write the words "this is YOU" on the arrow and tack it with a hunting knife onto this womans door.

    That should stop the jacking off complaints.

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  • justlooking1976

    Totally unreasonable! Should be naked and masturbating together all the time! Eventually you'll have no choice but to become comfortable with each other.

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    • Pseodonihm

      LOL

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