Is it wrong to like young girls?

Hi There im chris hansen with dateline nbc.....

To all those sprouting "below 18 = jail" > stop assuming everyone lives where you live > If the wikipedia age of consent map is right
(see http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/e/ef/Age_of_Consent.png) 16 is the age of consent in most countries.

But as you can see on the map there`s a country with age 9 as age of consent ... and quite a few with age 14 as age of consent.

Also note that 13 has been the age for marriage for about 1800 years, if not more, it`s just that society changed it views in the last 100-200 years...

So I`d just call it natural instinct to be attracted to girls `round those ages, just stupid social stigma making it look like it`s worse then serial killing ...

> damn DINLA100 ur way too lucky...

i am 47 and masturbate most nights over a preteen, as long as it stays a fantasy is there a problem?

You have to ask yourself WHY this young girl is so willing to have sex with you.

In my experience, it is usually a desperate search of approval and validation caused by a lack of self worth from a history of sexual abuse.

If you engage in sex with this girl, you will reinforce her self-perception that her only value as a human being is as a sex toy. You will therefore cause damage to a young girl who has already been victimized.

I'm fucking grossed out.

People would have a field day slitting throats here.

Why don't you try ageplay?

It's what adult school uniforms are for.

However, I'm 18,and when I put on my cute school uniform on, I look about 12.

hehe .. I personally would love to date young high school girls - they're just adorable and cute. especially after watching the movie "Kick-Ass" ... hint: "Hit-Girl!"

I'm in my 20s though. and unfortunately ... the legal sex age in Cali is 18 ... so I suppose the girls can sue me afterward ... -_-

but it appears that it's 14 in Canada ... hmmmmmmmmm =P

There is absolutely nothing wrong with this as long as you dont force the girls against their will.
Myself I actually prefer mine between the ages of thirteen and sixteen

What about when a nine yo tries to SEDUCE..This happened to me a few years ago. She was the daughter of my mothers neighbor, her words were and I quote " If you give me $2 I'll let you do something". I can't tell you exactly what happened but 1/2 hour latter she flagged down the ice creme truck.

Unless you are opposed to fornication in general, you could not make any kind of logical argument that this is wrong.

Nothing wrong with that enjoy it mate

Older guys needa stay away from girls that age...let them enjoy childhood and not rot their minds.

Nothing wrong with it, but I agree with the poster above be careful make sure not to hurt them. Communicate your intentions if its just sex or more. Good luck.

God damn it. It is NOT okay to hit on young girls. Understand, it is NOT okay.

I have had opportunities before as well but I turned them down because they would have caused nothing but trouble.

I had an exgirlfriend who was eleven years older than me. Her daughter in our house was 15 and VERY beautiful (Look in my profile for my current fiance) and I did have a chance. I turned it down though although my body really really wanted to.

Why, because it would be far better for the girl to grow up on her own and enjoy her own life. I did not have to introduce her to sex or these topics. Although I did answer EVERY question she asked me about the topic.

Now that I am done with her mom and no longer around her or her daugher, do I regret not trying anything. As a man, yes. As a human and an intelligent person, no. I am glad I didn't but it doesnt hurt me to be annoyed when I am told about my ex and her hot daughter.

However, at the end of the day, I can look into the mirror and be very happy I am truly innocent within MYSELF and this brings joy to my life.

GO FOR IT DUDE! Invite me too!

I agree with the posters above dont hurt them give them plenty of oral first or your likely to split them in half ot fracture the pelvis

Yeah, alot of pedos on this site. Guess they cant help it. It should just feel wrong, I can see being attracted to a young girl who looks older or fantasizing about her. But even that is really going too far. I once new a guy who was in his late 20s, 28 or so who was with a 16 year old girl. She really liked him and I guess they are still together, but I dont see the attraction. But, whatever.

i think its cool cuz older guyz its almost cuz its supose to be wrong plus mostly they buy me stuff hehe

I'm personally 14 and find men super attractive. Guys my age honestly don't cut it for me.

despite what many may think,
YES, it is completely normal - although sex with minors is illegal.

if you drool over 10-year-olds, it's a completely different story.
but traditionally, around the world, 14 to 16 was a normal age for young adults to get married.
if a 15-year-old is mature enough to make his/her decisions, and have a near-fully developed body, then the only issue that remains is whatever law that may apply to you in the particular country or area you happen to be in.

anyone who say a 15-year-old is not ready for sex has either been living under a rock (and hence forgotten how a 15-year-old look these days), or possess a worped mind which allows them to somehow convince themselves that the NUMBER of someone's age, and not their ACTUAL MATURITY, rules over all logic and reason.

therefore these twisted people somehow conclude that sex with an immature 18 year old who has not gone through her period yet is perfactly ok, while sex with a mature, physically developed 16 year old is the worst thing a man (RAPIST!) can possibly do, and he is without any doubt the most horrid of our kind (and therefore the mutuality of the relationship is not even considered).

as any person of logic would agree, this is insanity.
i guess we do need some sort of a standard, however, so we still do need laws...

in any case, if the attraction is mutual, and the act is consentual, without any physical and/or mental harm to either of the party, then it is a de facto "victimless crime".

politics aside, it's really the mutuality and consentuality which is most important.

What the fuck is wrong with you?! Can you really not date anyone born in your decade? Do you have to go so low to find love? Those girls aren't old enough to know what they want. They want to look cool by giving thirty year olds blow jobs. They look at you as someone knowledgable about the world like you've been around and you just take advantage of that.

Yes to what bioboy said. You'll basically be ruining her life, unless you plan to wed her.

I think it is wrong if you like younger girls, because they are GIRLS, you need a woman.

okay... That's normal to like young people but to date them is... sick...

if your 30 years old you shouldn't be going out with 14 year olds, if you were like 20 then yea but 30 is too old

DOES ANYONE ELSE NOT REALIZE THAT THAT'S FUCKING ILLEGAL? You don't want to be on a fucking list for the rest of your life.

were animals. we have uncontrollable instincts to our forefathers, ancestors, and homo-sapien predecessors. forget the thousands and thousands of years that built you this way and just see that even 60 years ago it wasnt all that bad for a 27-30yr man to drive a 14yr old girl to a courthouse, or if needed across a state border or two and marry her.. our whole basis as men is formed by 30 year old dudes settling with a woman of probably 11-13, back when girls were hitting puberty even later..

sorry society says were wrong..
sorry 17 will get you 20..
sorry people are repressed in the land o the free.

sorry for the dudes who act better than you.. they can go fuck corpse's and procreate by test-tube if they are really that angrily against getting a nut on some young n tight..

i admit openly... do i want to fuck your hot 13yr old little sister? omg yes.. but im not a rapist.. im not gonna put in work for no little kid, and i damn sure wont risk 20yrs trying to avoid payback,being lured, or luring in a bitch just cause i wanna make her hyman bleed..

It's not ok and it's not legal. These girls are not old enough to legally give consent. Get help before you find yourself in prison.

To all the men who are thinking about pursuing sex with a girl of 18 and younger please understand - while she may be physically attractive, mentally she is still a child...

The fact is her brain is underdeveloped and she is emotionally incompetent to make big life decisions. Instead of protecting her you would be causing her irreversible harm. The younger the girl, the greater the damage. Pursuing a 14 year old or younger is completely evil.

Knowingly harming a person in such way for your own gratification is ***PSYCHOPATHIC***.

Just say no and play with someone your age..

From the way you're describing things, I wouldn't say it was normal. I mean to have sexual fantasies about underage girls is one thing, but to actually have sex with them is a criminal offense. I don't even know why you're posting your experiences here, where law enforcement can see what you're writing. And I don't agree with anyone who would say this is normal behavior.

Yes, it's wrong. OF COURSE, IT'S WRONG!!!! You know it is morally wrong and against the law yet, you intend to break the law anyway! You make me sick, taking advantage of that poor child. She's a child, not an adult!

Yes, it is normal and very hard to resist, however, I could resist it by taking a picture of them with their permission and masterbating to it and I'd be fine and feel free from the flesh afterwards. I mean it's not my soul that wants the feeling, it's my body. My soul needs a warm hug, my body wants a sexual feeling, and my spirit serves God all the way. I do not encourage you to continue with your actions even if they want it. My advice is for you to go to a country where it's not illegal and you should be fine.

well u sick bastard im gonna get the police the and then u can get face justice and if i don't and i do become a police officer or the law which i want to i will arrest you if i can and get the option and then u can face justice cuz that's part of why i want to be a police office and the law is to bring justice and to stop sick people like you

ewwww no your a pedo and im gonna report you to the police and get you sent to the state prison where sick people like you belong with other pedos amoung the other sick and criminals and scum that they can be with where they belong if they cant obey the the law and rules.

Young girls are very sexy, but would I ever pursue anything with someone the law states as illegal?? NO i wouldnt.

I'm really attracted to two different girls. One is 31, the other is 15. I'm 23. I'd say most guys probably find young girls attractive but don't say it because they're afraid of being called pedos. Of course everyones tastes vary, I know most guys are really into large breasts but I find them a bit of a turnoff. I like smaller breasts and petite girls, whereas I have a few friends who are really into large women. To each his own I say, but I'd advise against pursuing relationships with young girls, it can come back to bite you. Like I said, I'm attracted to one girl I know who is only 15, and I'm pretty sure from her body language that she likes me too, but there is no way I could go for it because our families are close friends and it would become apparent there was something going on between us. Also I have to wait until she's old enough because I don't believe in premarital sex, though it is very tempting.

my best friend is 22 and looooves little girls.
he would never do anything to them to hurt them but he might try to get with them. like when i was 13 he was crazy about me, since he saw me all the time because i went out with his best friend haha

i dont see much wrong with it as long as the guy isnt fucking dumb and he respects women/teens.

its normal

IT IS ILLEGAL TO HAVE SEX WITH A MINOR WHAT PART DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND??????????????

Old enough to bleed old enough to butcher

The majority of people think it's hot and you should get that young pussy. Wish it was mine to give to you

Sounds like one hot girl

I like em young too Get a hooker girl and dont be hanging around arcades

If I woke up tomorrow morning, and found out that all the pedophiles on the planet had committed mass suicide I would celebrate! Pedophiles are human garbage, and society is better off without them!!!

Pedophilia is the primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children ages 12 and younger. Hebephilia is defined as individuals with a primary or exclusive sexual interest in 11- to 14-year-old pubescent kids. The former is generally considered a psychological disorder. And while it is considered illegal in many states and most countries, the latter is not considered a psychological disorder.

No, you're sick. A young girl with a body like a woman is one thing but a 12 year old...seriously? A 12 year olds body is not a fully developed woman dude.

Im on the fence on this subject .... as far as nature is concerned 13 and above is ok as they are usually ready to reproduce at the same time i dont think it is wrong for any guy to like young girls its in our nature .. that being said acting on it is a diff story esp if its a forced action ... for example i find my step niece who is 14 very cute and very attractive but i dont act on it ... but if she enacted the encounter i dont know if i could resist :] ... so i dont think its wrong for men to like young girls just have some discipline.

Ah, what a long discussion! I myself am 30 and usually am attracted to teens. Recently I was kissing someone to later find out she's 16... Now, physically speaking she was as woman as can be and very hot. Still I feel very uncomfortable about it, hitting on young girls, even if they're 18. Often I like women in their 20s just as much, but the young ones attract me more often. It's kind of painful trying to reconcile the desire with the shame around it.

I know a guy doing 7 years because he grabbed a minor females ass. When he gets out he will forever be a registered sex offender, have to get permission to move, or go out to a bar. His life and the word fun will never meet again.

It is excessively normal from a biological standpoint. Anyone who says otherwise is some strange sort of zealot (and America is full of those). Now socially its a bit awkward because the odds of a 30 y/o and a 14-16 y/o having thing in common is relatively low (probably why people claim it is wired or perverted....people have odd obsessions conforming to things that are statistically normal or fulfilling age based roles) but thats not exactly a reason to not pursue romantic relationships with young girls. Just make sure that you are honest and the both of you are clear on what you're getting into and what your seeking.

I'm 36 years old, been with my husband for 13 years now and half a year ago I caught him watching legal porn of girls that look 12-16 and he told me that is what turns him on. We don't have sex that much and I have 2 teenage daughters (1 is his) and it bothers me everyday knowing that that is what turns him on and he is attracted to, it makes me feel very unattractive and old and used up. For some older women when they hear this it makes them feel like we are to old to be attractive anymore and are being replaced by our young girls. How would you men feel if you knew that women found young boys more attractive than you older men (like in your 30's)? If you do like it, then keep it to yourselves and keep it hidden sometimes the damage it does is too much for some to accept and bare.

im mean im gonna be 20 in a few weeks and 19 right now but that's ok if i do it cuz im not in my 30s im only just starting my 20s but even that's not ok with the law but its better then in ur 30s im much younger and more there age.

It is not wrong to like young girls, in fact history has shown to us that young girls have been wedded off as political game.
You should know that Thomas jefferson had sexual relations with a young slave girl if that makes you feel any better.
But the thing you should worry about is if others will know about this relationship such as the girls neighbors, relatives, even people who may recognize her will cause you trouble.

In America that is referred to as 'Gaol Bait.'

It's normal but it's illegal so stay away from arcades. You want a young girl get hooker girl and bang em and leave.

There are plenty of older women who like young boys I can assure you of that.

Good lick to the guy, lucky fucker

OOPS I SPELT RUIN WRONG

my my my, it seems the pedos have their own thread now...

And force against Anyone is something to wit I cannot abide. :(

But to answer your question, poster, and this may surprise a few people - But, to LIKE younger girls, in the 14-16 range is not bad (per se') in MOHO, in fact, my guess is Most of you guys like them, something about young innocence perhaps (I've never understood the facination myself, AND I thought Most guys like Large breasts, but...)

So, to LIKE something doesn't blow my circuts out.

Doing the deed, on the other hand, is where I get a little queasy. Not for any "moral" reasons (I was a little hottie from day one) but because to many guys screw around with the heart and head of a teen girl - and badly hurt her.

(Now if your desire dips into the single digits my answer would be quite different.)

Tobra - not quite full figured, but proud. :)

I just turned 16 (few days ago haha) but personally I am very attracted to older guys/men. The oldest guy I ever liked was 37. I still do like him very much.Guys in their 20s are very attractive as well. Something about older men that is very sexy. Their maturity and experience are very arousing to me. They are also fully developed unlike other guys my age.

I find it hard to belive anyone in their 30`s would still use the term "fingerd" haha... ah the good old days, "i fingerd her behind the bike shed" "how many fingers did you get up" etc.....

lolita