Is middle aged more about appearance than age?
For me personally I see middle aged as 50s and 60s and 70s as young elderly and 80s+ as regular elderly
Because I have a sister who is 44 I'm 30 we don't look any different in age actually she looks younger than me and no one would ever call her middle aged by appearance I think of middle aged as in you see someone rob a shop and a cop asks you what they looked like I'd say middle aged only if they're 50+ and I'd just say 30s or 40s if they looked under 50
Because I feel like most people can't tell 30s and 40s apart but 50+ you can almost always tell as it's impossible not to have sagging skin that shows your age. 30s and 40s is when your skin is starting to only show fine lines if any at all and 50+ is when they become more pronounced and obvious