Is my bf addicted to porn?

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he never watches porn when i’m at his place even if i’m in a different room which is good. but whenever i leave he goes to watch it. and i know bc i look at his history and he goes to watch it at the time i leave! its like he’s adddicted!! we usually spend 3 and a half days apart out of the week. sometimes less sometimes more just depends. but that’s usual. and he watches porn maybe 3-4 times per day when we are apart!! is this normal? it doesn’t bug me that much but sometimes he doesn’t want sex and then i go home and he goes to watch porn right away. idk!!! it’s just annoying u know

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    The fact that he watches porn and doesn't have sex with you is a big warning sign that he may well be addicted. If he is, he's the only person who can do anything about it and if I were you I'd think seriously of ending this relationship unless he gives you more attention than he gives to porn.

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      This!

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Maybe he's not worth the trouble?

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      Come on rose. Why cause he is male. So what..he watches porn...omg!!

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        6 years ago

        Rose just always hates on him on my posts. She knows the full story of him...

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        • RoseIsabella
          6 years ago

          Yeah, pretty much. I just think you would be better off with someone who treated you better. If I had a son or daughter of my own I wouldn't want them with someone who treated them the way this jackass treats you.

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  • Eminemisbae
    6 years ago

    It's quite odd if he prefers "beating his meat" over getting the real thing..soo maybe he isn't attracted to you sexually anymore..have you seen the kind of fetish he's into?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      he likes piss porn

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      • Ellenna
        6 years ago

        And I'm guessing you don't? If that's the only way he can get off, he is addicted to that particular fetish

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  • Kittenfever
    6 years ago

    Most guys watch porn, so the amount he watches probably isn't concerning, but at least use a private browser, dude. The fact that he chooses to watch porn over having sex with you is pretty bad, though, you're a real life person and preferring to wank over strangers is annoying for you and frankly, odd? I think you should tell him how you feel, though, maybe tease him about it and joke about it. He might feel embarrassed and hopefully, learn how to use Google Incognito.

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      Most people watch porn. Male and female. Why exactly should he use a private browser? Why go about making a charade of something there is nothing to be embarrassed of.

      As for the timing, sometimes, for many reasons, people prefer alone time.

      It doesn't mean he loves any less. It just means he needed alone time.

      It's hard being human. Being someones girlfriend doesn't mean you always have to be the center of someones universe. And it doesn't mean he is addicted to porn.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        6 years ago

        U may be right

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        • nikkiclaire
          6 years ago

          Heck yeah I just maybe on this one sweety. Let guys watch porn it's ok.

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            6 years ago

            DUDE. NIKKI. I AM. I DONT CARE HE WATCHES IT. Are you even reading what I am saying ...?!?

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        • nikkiclaire
          6 years ago

          👍stop snooping sweety

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            6 years ago

            I will try. It’s honestly a habit. How old ru? Ps. My mom doesn’t trust him too... so

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      "The fact that he chooses to watch porn over having sex with you is pretty bad, though, you're a real life person and preferring to wank over strangers is annoying for you and frankly, odd?"

      I quoted you, because that is precisely the problem on this particular post, but OP has had lots of other problems with this guy. I'm not hatin on this dude just because I'm bored yanno. Honestly, I wonder if he's just using her to alleviate boredom or for her money.

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      • DoctorPunk
        6 years ago

        Most women, and men enjoy watching porn on an occasional basis. Ideally, the happy couple could hold hands and watch it together. Why don't you indulge yourself a bit? I think you need to unwind.

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  • justanotherhole
    4 years ago

    offer to watch it with him i did that for years until my wife offered and now there nothing we will not do for each other anything goes and i mean anything...except anything that may harm the other ...

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  • Mollyiced
    5 years ago

    He’s got a problem, he needs help, it’s not your fault, it’s his

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      r u being sarcastic

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      • Mollyiced
        5 years ago

        No, watching porn to the extent you prefer pornography over actual sex, means that something is wrong with you

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  • Logan1107
    6 years ago

    He's obviously addicted lol id try to get him to confess, and if hes not even interested in YOU... Id say its time to leave him cause hes obviously after something else u could offer, not sure what though, dont take what i say to heart though im a rambler lol.

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  • bushmaster227
    6 years ago

    dont over think .... most are afraid to be open. i am more open now than i have ever been n in doin so i have found alot of conflict . but in all at least im honest to myself n to them . i cant make anyone like what i do n i may never be a missionary man again . but in all .... i have desire n i dont wanna be alone like most . im not givin up n yes my girl is doin her best

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Stop invading his personal privacy and stop judging him. I would hate to have such a judgemental girlfriend such as yourself.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      If i don’t do that shit i feel like I’d be being lied to bc he does shady stuff sometimes

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Hey girl, please do tell us about the other shady stuff he pulls.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          Has gone to massage places three times since November and hasn’t told me, watches porn 3+ a day, says all men lie and that men are here to spread their seed and if a man says they only think about you they’re lying, if men were good with women they wouldn’t have families, etc

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          • RoseIsabella
            6 years ago

            He sounds really awful. He does not represent the vast majority of men. Why do you care to continue with such a raging douchebag?

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      • nikkiclaire
        6 years ago

        If he does other shady shit thats diff but you asked about his porn.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          Mhmm. I’m just saying

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          • nikkiclaire
            6 years ago

            You shady now 😂😂😂😂

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              6 years ago

              How

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  • TerriAngel
    6 years ago

    It's a thing.
    Guys do.
    Shame on you for snooping.
    Privacy is something we all deserve.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Even when you’re dating someone who doesn’t tell you the truth / is shady?

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      • TerriAngel
        6 years ago

        Without trust, why have a relationship?
        Ive ended, and had relationships end over this issue.
        its there, or its not.
        and it should be equal.

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      • nikkiclaire
        6 years ago

        Ok well lets look at that. Did you tell him you secretly look at his browser history???

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          He actually caught me. I didn’t bring it up though. That’s a little too crazy. I told him I looked at his history because I wanted to see what kind of porn he watched.. so I can make him happy...

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          • nikkiclaire
            6 years ago

            This is why i have a gf. I love guys but meh.

            We both watch pee porn, its interesting. We dont watch it together most of the time but we start a dialog about stuff.

            I guess what I am saying is this:

            None of us know what we are doing. Rose certianly doesnt, luv ya rose.

            Live let live. Talk to your partner. Talk

            I am into some weird shit. I watched pee porn once so i told my girlfriend.

            She said lets try it so we did. It was intimate and lovely.

            We tried it we liked it and thats that.

            If you wanna be this guy this partner then do it. But Jesus h christ talk to each other.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Or at least you think they are..?

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  • Badasswithboobs
    6 years ago

    It is normal most people watch porn and its probably cause u dont see each other often hes needs something to do to enjoy himself and have fun 😉😉😉😉 xxxxx

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    • Ellenna
      6 years ago

      He IS having fun: not having sex with her, watching porn and presumably wanking.

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      • nikkiclaire
        6 years ago

        Whats wrong with that. Why must being in a relationship mean giving up yourself. He isnt cheating, he isnt hiding anything. He wouldn't be hurting anyone if she wasn't invading his privacy. Really ellenna, what did he do wrong??

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        • Ellenna
          6 years ago

          I didn't say he was doing anything wrong, read my post again

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          I don’t care if he watches porn. He does it like 3 times a day, someone’s more. I can’t stop it. Even if I didn’t want him to he would do it anyways so I’m like i don’t even care. The REASON I’m annoyed and worried is because he will say he’s not horny and a little while after I’ll go home and as soon as I leave he’ll go to watch porn. And I know this because I usually leave the same time every week and it shows he watched it as soon as I left. Like what the fuck is up with that

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          • Ellenna
            6 years ago

            It seems others have responded to you without reading your post properly (all too common everywhere) but I understand why you're upset he says he's not horny, doesn't want sex with you and then watches porn.

            I think he may well be addicted and I can't think of anything you can do about it, assuming you want to stay with him. If he's more interested in actors fucking on screen than having sex with you, that's obviously a problem.

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            • bushmaster227
              6 years ago

              some times " role play " we think of sex as a way to just connect .... but to some the act of bein other n what life is .... well ?

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            • nikkiclaire
              6 years ago

              Excuse me. Just caused I asked a question doesn't mean I didnt read the post.

              There is a difference between intimacy and horny. He is probably horny but he doesn't want to be intimate with O.P due to her snooping, suspicious nature. I wouldn't want to have sex with someone who was all up in my personal business. She is obviously suffering low self esteem which is itself a huge turn off, she doesn't respect him and she is a snooping badger. Who wants to be with someone like that???

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            • RoseIsabella
              6 years ago

              Yes, a thousand times yes again!

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