Is my friend normal?

My best friend skipped all three of his classes yesterday. I think this is because he visited with other friends the other night and never returned. I asked him Wednesday if he would be at college yesterday and he said he would. Why would he skip his classes to do this? He wouldn't do this for me, but he'll do it for his other friend! I consider him my best friend, but now I'm not sure if he considers me his. If he doesn't i might as well die because he's the only friend for me. Is what he did normal? Shouldn't he care about his college? He didn't get any scholarships so his parents are basically paying for him to do stupid stuff like this! He was so "turnt" about being with his friend as it said on snapchat the other night around 2am. Why doesn't he feel this good when he is with me? Am i doing something wrong? Is he acting normal or being rude and inconsiderate to me, his parents, and his professors? I'm so upset and distraught about this.

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Based on 23 votes (8 yes)
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  • SirChazwick

    You sound borderline obsessive with this guy. Your post comes off creepy as hell. You must be another pleb.

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    • shoka2322

      I am obsessed, but that is because i really care about him! And yes, i don't have money coming out every time i go to the bathroom. I'm not rich!

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  • NormaLeeSane

    Your friend sounds normal, and it sounds like he wants to distance himself from a "friend" with stalker tendencies. You need to seek professional help - soonest!

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  • Dreamsao

    You're not normal. Might as well die? So you're gonna kill yourself over another man? "Why doesn't he feel good when he's with me"?

    Maybe your friend noticed you catching romantic feelings and he distanced himself. You're gay. But that's ok. Me too.

    What's not ok is obsessive love. Because you sound like you're gonna murder him in his sleep then kill yourself. Not normal. Creepy.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome

    If you're not an overly social person it's normal for your best friends to have better friends than you. I know it's hard, but I had that too.
    I get that you're worried about him but this is simply not your responsibility. You can tell him what you think about it, but some things people just have to learn for themselves.
    I'd suggest trying to find more friends - It's not as hard as it seems. You sound like a nice enough person I'm sure you can do it.

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  • Bighohnson

    Sounds like your a boaring person all bout the schooling never have fun put the books down for a night and go out and live it up with your friend your in collage got to party and have fun exsplore your sexuality cause thats whats collage is all bout geting an education and partying it up

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  • fluffy1uv

    If he's the only friend for you you sound like you're in love bro

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  • shampoo07

    1) he is not your friend
    2)dont die please

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    • shoka2322

      How is he not my friend?!

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