Is there a way i can avoid "overthinking"?
This overthinking is seriously killing me almost every other problem in my life is coz of overthinking.
how can i avoid it?
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This overthinking is seriously killing me almost every other problem in my life is coz of overthinking.
how can i avoid it?
Be present. Sort of like the mindfulness suggestion above, but the key is to recognize where you are in the moment instead of dwelling in your head. Make observations without judgements - so look out your window and say to yourself "That is a tall tree. I like the green color, it's soothing." Not, "Gosh I'm bored. This exercise is pointless. I'm kind of hungry. I wonder if our ancestors ate trees? I really am hungry, I wish i could order out. If only i had more money. Oh geez i forgot that report, what am I going to do? I'm going to get fired" Etc. . .See the difference though? Positive and present, not negative and trying to divine the future. That is how you defeat the overthink in my experience.
You are trying to think of a solution. This is the same as the problem. You are just continuing to over think. Stop doing that.
And don't use your computer or talk to people who also over think too much
Overthinking? Do mean you have a problem and think you have a solution but then drive yourself batty trying to figure out if there's a better solution? Just go with what works. It makes life a lot easier. Problem solved. Next!
Actually no, it's a bit hard to explain. it's like when i do something, after that I think i should've done better or in a diff. way.
if i am gonna do something then I just think a lot of ways to do it & then i am just lost in that world of "thinking".guuh!i don't think any of this made sense to you & u are probably thinking i am nuts... but it's inaffable.
sorry!
nah! probably not alcohol don't take her advise that's all i can advise you.
Yeah i tried but i don't wanna be drunk all day & it wasn't that helpfull either.
I prefer weed, but my money is tight, and I have no connection. C'est la vie.
I feel like a saint☹️🙃 now,coz may be i am the only one here who don't smoke weed...
& not even alcohol that much.
There's nothing wrong with you! You have nothing to be bummed out about. You don't need to compare your drinking habits to rest of us. Not being a heavy drinker is something to be proud of, and there's nothing wrong with being a person who doesn't partake of the herb.
Grow it, sweetie. You live in a tolerant state. The law wants you to stay out of sight. It's all they ask.