Is there a way to stop dating men?

You're not in control over whether you choose to date or not?

Yes, there are ways, if you use any dating apps delete them ,if one approaches you then reject him.

Men aren't all the same. You just pick the same type. The problem is you.

Here's a hint. Men who commit are looking for women who are committed to life, to goals, to values, and to action. It isn't easy to be like this. You might be happier being like many women who opt for the quick sex and then the ghost maneuver.

Stop going out with users. There are plenty of decent men around, you're just choosing the shit ones.

Yea, say no

All men are the same? The same could be said about women.

Unless you magically turn into a lesbian or enjoy living alone, it's probably not going to happen.

You choose what kinds of men you date. Instead of picking the same type of guy over and over, go for something different.

Also, bit sexist aint ye?

Why don't you broaden your search area for men. There really are a bunch of decent ones out there that are not users, and they share and are willing to commit to the right Lady.

Of course, perhaps its you that are using men... and the only men who will allow it to even start are the kind you cannot live with long term. That's on you if this is the case. You can learn to do better if that is the case.

You can also learn to look in other places where decent men hang out. Hint: Its not at the bar or the club, and its not on the cheesiest/cheapest dating sites either.

I dealt with tons of obvious mismatches on most dating sites for over a decade (and do I have stories) - and then found much better possibilities and the lady who became my wife on a dating site that required both of us to pay noticeable $ for a membership (best dating website investment ever - and I think I paid $300 about a decade ago for I think a 6 month membership - and I believe the Ladies had to pay the same).

I guess the lesson I learned from that was: "If you don't want cheap trash... then stop acting like cheap trash yourself."

I guess that applies in public meeting places too. I prefer to take Ladies to museums, the ballet, and other places; and totally avoid the bars and clubs. We can always find other places to go that most bar flies would never think off..

I wish you well with this,

If over and over people won’t commit to you then the problem is YOU.

When some guy asks you out, just say, "NO".

Become a lesbian.

Just don't date. You can't change your sexual orientation, but you can choose not to date.

I'm afraid not. You are going to have to keep dating them.

(In all seriousness, what you've discovered isn't a "men" thing; it's a "people" thing.)

Guys are all the same? Since when?

Just got to find one that's not weird. Or is weird, depends on what you like in a person.

Find better men, stay solo, or fuck with women. It is simple

Yes it's called not dating unless you aren't straight then just date women instead or you could go for a different type of man and stand up for yourself by not dating men who aren't willing to commit.

You seem to pin men as this stereotypical only out for their own well being and don't have care or feelings for other people. It's ok if you want to be single forever, but don't portray that all men act like this because they don't.

kill them

No one is forcing you to date anyone, it is entirely your decision.

Leabihonest, there are a couple

Yes. Stop dating men.

be a lesbian

Bad news women do the same thing. Sometimes they are just users but sometimes it's you.
For a long time I was totally against commitment, so I found myself at about 3 to 4 months into any relationship, I would start pushing doing things that would make them move on. I didn't even realize I was doing it.
Sometimes they just hang around long enough to see something they don't really like then they're gone.
I think it's for the best, you'll know the right person male or female when it happens, it will happen for both.
Meanwhile just live your life and enjoy, be happy with yourself quit looking so hard.

I’m over here trying to find
A way to start

It gets more complex when you don't have the 'YES' option in your post.

You need to take control of your relationships. In my relationship I am very much in control, and he better remember that or else!