Is there hope for a guy like this ?
Im dating a guy who is pretty extreme insecure about dating like hes not experienced and like hes a bit of a pushover. Hes not just nice hes terrified of offending anyone, you know.
He turns 25 soon so hes too old to be like this but he is and I like him because he treats me with full respect and everything hes certainly not a "nice guy" but a genuine one which I can tell by this time 3 months into dating but hes a pushover and thats a big reason I think.
I am not a romantic or intimate person ive never gotten the point of sex but I like cuddling and making out and I have plenty of experience in dating so I know what I like. I am highly attracted to handy, practical and intellectual men who get things done. I am zero percent attracted to romantic overly sensitive guys.
Wll this guy hes eager to please and be romantic. He picks me wildflowers and flowers from åpeoples private gardens and give to me to be edgy that he stole a flower. Like okay man..
Like steal osmthing cool at least ya know. I once dated a guy who stole vaccuumes so that was cool. Becayse cleaning is good ya know hehe.
Well. He cant kiss. He puts his lip on my lips and he does nothing. He doesnt touch me.
Like ?... He doesnt grab my face to kiss me. He leans forth and stares at me. Thats his way that he wants to kiss me. IDK maybe thats normal I never look at him so. I don care.
Hes weird face. His lips are weird and too far up his face. Like little bulldog lmao. His got nice eyes tho but I prefer brown eyes these days but his will do.
He tried to make me meet his family on date 3 but it didnt work lol.
I told him eventually dont be so clingy and he said oh okay and now he almost never text me.
At first he kept syaing to me from date 3 "I want to see oyu everyday!" and I was like okay man chill the fucks down...
Because im not attracted to him. Hes just some picece of mild toast but its okay. I dont have good luck wiht men and I figured out im bisexual and lean heaiver to women sexually but whatever I am honestly to done with life to care and all I know is I dont wanna die alone. Im 30 in 4 years and im the problem I made things end with every man I dated so im just tryingto make a rleationship work for the first time soI can not die alone ya know. Sure my neigbour is constantly hitting on me in messenger but hes weird ya know he ignores me in person so hes really weird but hes got a company car so hes got something going at least.
Anyway. Ive been drinking becuase it weekend times and english isnt even my first language so excuse me though I know my english is perfect because that is a fact. Thanks, ME. <3
Well... Hes not exaclt mihael stipe but you know hes cute in his ways. I would murder a million for him to be though... not gonna lie.
He is cute because hes so innocent I can lead himanywhere I want but I like some challenge.
Last time he told me he can stop being friends with a specific childhood friend if I want to, like wtf ? make your own decisions about toxic people m8 im not your MOTHER...
Then he told m since he started dating me he no longer has anxiety (he suffers panic disorder) this to me is red flag becaus he make me responsible for his mental health which he promised me he wouldnt but seriously dudes what does this mean othewise....
I like controlling men its particularly easy to control men lmao but I like challenge like at least fight back man ya know... be a "man" for me, man.... lmao. Grow some balls.