Is this a good way to approach women or is it too creepy?

If she doesn't show enough interest I don't bring it up at all.

Absolutely not! :) That’s pretty funny though.

If she doesn't show enough interest I don't bring it up at all.

Women dont perceive "have you ever had a relationship before" as a sex question, they perceive that as you expressing an interest in having a relationship with them.

How about you just don't

I don’t know. You could try giving her your number instead.

If a guy I didn’t know very well asked me for my number, I’d probably either feel awkward about explaining that I don’t give my number out to people I don’t know very well, or I might give my number and feel hesitant, not sure if I really should’ve because I don’t know him very well. This would still probably be the case for me even if I liked him a lot.

If a woman doesn’t want to give you her phone number, it might be because she doesn’t feel comfortable giving out contact info to someone she doesn’t know very well, or she might be shy. It doesn’t necessarily correspond to whether or not she feels attracted.

Also, even if a woman’s attracted to you, it doesn’t necessarily mean she’d feel comfortable with it if you brought up sexual things.

I also think that when applicable, genuine compliments about things not related to appearance or body are really nice. While I’ve been very flattered by being called beautiful, I also really have loved it when guys have complimented me on something I’m good at.

But you want to word yourself and present yourself in such a way that she IS into you right?

Ok so- you know my comment the other day about how you are creepy & a bit rapey. Like, I'm way to lazy to comb the site looking for examples & reply in detail, but this is a pretty good one, right here.

You: Oh, she doesnt want to be here.
You: Oh ok, well, I could just leave
You: Oh, she feels to awkward to tell me to leave
You: Well, I'm just...even though I'm aware of how she feels..I'll just stay here anyways& she HAS TO STAY because she has food & HAS LESS OF A CHOICE
You: I'll just ignore how she feels & try to use that to my advantage & manipulate her in order to get sex

You: I'll just ignore the fact that she feels uncomfortable & freaked out & just...go ahead

Its fucked up, so bad. Do you not see it at all??? The fact that you even WANT someone to stay & 5alk to you when they obviously feel uncomfortable, but feel obligated...that is sooooo messed up lol

This is not normal, man. :(

Girls can (generally) only consider a guy a romantic prospect once they feel safe and respected - not like a kind of prey. We like to feel that we are being treated as human beings with dignity, you see. Imagine that deep down beneath that pretty exterior, she will hate being disrespected just as much as you would.

If you try to 'trap' her while she's eating and she wants to leave but can't, it doesn't matter how long you spend with her, she is just going to dislike you more as time goes on and nothing you say or do will change her mind, because she'll feel harrassed, just like you would.

'facilitate attraction'??
Look, the girl's feelings are hers, not yours. If you try to lay hold of what isn't yours by manipulating it out of her, of course she won't feel safe or respected around you.

Just don't talk about sex at all.

I usually don't start liking a guy in a romantic way until I've known him for a while - like weeks, not minutes. Even if I had really disliked him at first. Personality is a major factor for girls. When a guy appears to start coming onto us by talking sexual and we aren't into him in that way, we get the 'ick' factor. It's gross.

In sum - most girls need to get to know a guy before they might consider him as someone they could realistically sleep with. And they like to feel safe and respected. If they feel trapped, disrespected or like you're manipulating them or not treating them like an equal human being to yourself, they will probably want to put as much space between the two of you as possible, and virtually no amount of time or trying will change that. If someone did that to you, you would just think they were a horrible person. Well girls are the same.

You should write a book on how to sound like a sexual predator

Ugh.

If she just leaves at any second then you weren't effective man. You want to be effective right? You want her to WANT to stay and talk, at least for a minute.

https://www.isitnormal.com/post/is-it-weird-to-talk-about-sex-so-casually--285537

That's why we "assume" you're gonna be a creeper.

Yeah, that sounds fair. We're all a bit different online.

Lol "someone else is doing something shitty so that excuses me doing something else shitty." Have you ever considered treating a woman as anything but a potential fuck toy?

NANI?!

Your his other account?

The only plan is don't have a plan.
Do it like you would just talk to a friend or a random person.

Stop thinking in terms of opening lines, how well you have honed your presentation, and how to direct the conversation.

Instead, first of all, have something on your mind which you are excited about, if she expresses interest in you. Second, consider some things you would genuinely like to know about her, and chief among them should be what is she interested in, what does she care about, what is her life like, and what might she be excited to share about it with someone she has just met?

And then please PLEASE go into the conversation without a set plan or any goal except to make a new connection with another human being, who might be an easy lay, might become your best friend, could possibly be experiencing a serious personal crisis, but probably just wants a little company and a new social connection without it turning out to be a disappointing, planned-out scam.

I'm female. If charismatic, friendly people are called social butterflies, then I'm a social slug. But to be nice, I would say yes if someone asked to sit with me. I'd answer the "benign questions" relatively normally, not giving away more information than necessary, and ask similar things in return.

If the conversation turned towards things involving sex and relationships, then my replies would get even shorter and more awkward. If you didn't leave first, then I'd find a way to politely excuse myself.

This is normal human interactions. Anyone who says otherwise has something wrong with them. You may get rejected regardless of how polite you are though don't let this get you down. When I read the title I thought you had a giant scheme to impress chicks but your behavior is very typical.

Just shove a cock up her mouth.