Is this bullying?
I work at a nightclub as a waitress, I'm a female, the boss is a gay male. He keeps doing things that if he weren't my boss, I'd slap him or at least not let him get away with, but since he's my boss, I hesitate. For example, I was standing at the bar, sorting glasses and he snook up on me and poked me in the face, or we had to wear these suspenders and again, he came up from behind and snapped them against my back, I turned around to see who it was and tell them to stop, but then saw that it was him, then he did it again. Or he called up everyone's names to see who was there, except mine. So I asked, whether I was on the list, and he said, "yes, you're on the list, here: Sara B**ch" My last name does start with a B, but it obviously isn't b**ch. Or another time, he asked when I'd finally undress and do a striptease. I joked well how much would I get paid and then he said first, we have to see what we're paying for. Then he continued, "Oh, you wouldn't strip, you're a virgin." Then later he asked, "so do you ever have sex? You should ask your colleague Sandy for advice, she already had a kid." (The colleague was there with us). He keeps doing these really rude things but then asks me to return for more shifts when he could easily just fire me if he was unhappy with my work.
| yes, it's bullying | 40 | |
| not sure/ comment | 5 | |
| no, it's not bullying | 4 |