Is this considered normal? is my dad harassing me?

Ever since I was a child my dad was constantly cheating on other women, he would bring over another women, sometimes one I didn’t know and I would hear then have sex. It’s gotten bad to where he told me to stay locked in my room when they had sex. I always heard it and it made me uncomfortable but it would’ve bothered me more to tell them to stop because I was afraid of his reply.

I became uncomfortable with my dad, he would touch me a lot and I would tell him to stop, he would put his hand around my neck and I would push his hand away but he would say “What’s the problem why are you acting so weird? I’m your father I’m supposed to touch you.”
He keeps touching me, my thighs, near my rear, my neck, my hair, it all bothers me. I’ve told him to stop so many times but he doesn’t listen.
My mother and father are divorced by the way, which is why my father was cheating a lot.

My dad also makes inappropriate comments, when I was younger I use to sleep with him in his bed because I was very scared of monsters and ghosts. I use to ask to sleep with him because I would wake up from night terrors and such just.
He would comment about how I was ‘trying to show my vagina’ in those shorts. He would just laugh it off and now that I think of it.. it kind of disturbs me.

He says a lot of dirty things and I tell him to stop but he doesn’t.
I talked to my friend about this and she said that he was harassing me, but I’m not sure. I want to talk to my mother about this but I’m afraid that my mother will either not believe me or call the police on my father.
I decided to write this after I heard and saw my dad masturbathing in the loft. It was loud and I was very disgusted so I just put on my headphones to drown it out.
It’s hard to look at him now, I don’t want to speak to him. It’s just very awkward and I feel very uncomfortable.

So I wanted to ask if it was normal for my dad to do this? Or if this was considered harassment?

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  • amg1028

    The comments and the inappropriate behavior by bringing random women over for sex and being very loud while pleasuring himself, all screams harassment to me, if he was a decent father, he would be private about it and have some damn manners and respect you by listening to you. i really think you should live with your mother. Tell your mother and if you are worried about her not believing you, try to bend the truth in some way. It really grosses me out and no father should be behaving this way with their daughter. please be careful, always have an exit if you are around your father. Good luck.

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    • babyhazel

      she should have sex with him or he will rape her i know

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  • No that’s not normal. He’s a pervert. It could get a lot worse and he could end up hurting you eventually, if he hasn’t already. Get him harassing you on video or recording and show it to your mother.
    If you can’t do that, hide. And when it’s time to sleep find a hidden area he won’t find you easily, such as behind the couch or under clothes in the closet.

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  • sadkitten9

    no its not normal. does your mom know about this? maybe u should consider living with her or another family member. i have also been harassed but not by my dad, i know how it feels , i would feel dirty and i wouldn't wear short skirt or tops because i felt everyone that looked at me would harass me. i was damaged but thanks to my mom i was able to overcome my trauma. PLEASE IF YOU HAVE A MOTHER OR A RELATIVE YOU ARE VERY CLOSE TO, TALK TO THEM
    STAY STRONG PLEASE

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  • Bbc4mommy

    Quit disrespecting your dad

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  • FAN2Cfullfiller

    eeew! Firstly, your mom WOULD believe you. Youre her baby, no matter your age. Secondly, its best to live with your mom. Your dad is a pedo

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