Is this considered sexual abuse?

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A friend of mine told me about a time when he was in military school where he was constantly bullied. One of the other guys in his company would want my friend to walk on his leg. He claimed that he had a problem with his hip, so he wanted my friend to walk on his inner thigh with his bare feet after he unzipped his pants.

There were a few occasions when he wanted my friend to walk on his dick because the guy claimed it sped up the process. The guy would pay him to do this or asked him to do it as a favor. Nobody ever spells out exactly what the perpetrator does in cases of sexual abuse or assault because it's such a taboo subject. So I'm asking for everyone else's personal opinion. They were teenagers then.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    2 years ago

    i went to a military school and never ran into any shit like that

    is what you wrote abuse? maybe

    itd depend to me how voluntary it was or if it was under threat

    weird as fuck though? oh yeah

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  • Boojum
    2 years ago

    The dude (not your friend) was clearly talking utter BS, and he obviously had some weird masochistic/submissive shit going on in his head that related to feet, his leg and his dick. Whether he also had something going on specifically about guys is another question; I assume there weren't many girls around in that environment.

    Sometimes it's very clear that sexual abuse has happened, but the legal definition isn't the same in all jurisdictions, and individuals have different personal definitions. Since an exposed penis was involved in this case, I'm sure there are those who would say that it was sexual abuse of some sort. I personally find it difficult to see how your friend might be justified in finding it abusive since nothing was actually done to him, but I suppose it's possible he might have been such a delicate flower that he found the experience traumatic. I think if it had happened to me when I was a teenager (or at any time since), I would have just filed it away under the heading of Seriously Weird People I Have Encountered.

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  • Orphan
    1 year ago

    Think about it, walking on someone's dick...

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety
    2 years ago

    I'm not so sure.

    It's pretty weird though.

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