Is this desire for my dad unusual?

So for quite a while I've struggled with these feeling of attraction to my dad (and no, not a step-day, my real dad). When I was younger I use to pretend to have a tummy ache so he would come rub my tummy to make it "feel all better". Unfortunately that stopped a couple years ago. And these feelings have grown even more intense as I've become more sexual. I've had a couple of boyfriends I've had sex with, but more often than not the only thing that can get me to cum, either with a boy or by myself, is ... the thought of being with my dad.

My mother is a nurse and started working evenings about a year ago. So most nights now it's just my dad and I alone in the house at night. When he comes home from work he's typically pretty tired and so usually just plops down in his recliner after dinner to watch TV for a couple hours. There's a couch next to the recliner which I've routinely laid on while watching TV for as long as I can remember. A few months ago I started a regular routine most nights of taking a shower after dinner and changing into my PJ shorts and a tank top, with no bra or panties, and lying on the couch while my dad watches TV. This is something I NEVER do when my mother's home, as she would often yell at me in the past if I didn't have a bra or panties on. Since I've been doing this my dad has not said one word about it. (Surely he's noticed the change right?).

When I take my shower after dinner I also now leave the door unlocked, and usually a little ajar. Again, something I never do when my mom's home.

Sometimes I pretend to be watching the TV / movie too , or reading, or even sleeping . I purposely squirm a bit ... in an effort to get him look over at me ... and I try to sneak a peek to see if I can tell if he has even the slightest erection or not. Usually it looks like he doesn't, but I swear a few times it looks like he may have had one. Many times I get especially horny and wet when a particularly sexy part of the movie of TV show comes on ... and I squirm and wiggly even more ... all the while fantasizing that maybe now, this time, he'll pick up on my flirtation and we'll both give in to it.

And so it goes on .. night after night ... but so far nothing has come of it, and my frustration continues to grow.

So there it is. It feels sooo freeing to finally be able to share that with SOMEBODY! My feelings and frustrations have been so bottled up for so long. My questions to you all now are .... is this what many other girls experience? Am I really abnormal? Is this something I should ever confide in my dad about? Would it be horribly wrong if we did ever act on it??? Would that make either of us a bad person? Do other girls who experience these feelings ever act on it, and if so, how does it turn out for them?? Should I be more aggressive in my flirtation / seduction? If so, how??? Or what are some other ways you girls have tried or had luck with?? IIN?

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Based on 483 votes (323 yes)
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Comments ( 35 )
  • ironhorse

    Go for him Brooke.He has noticed and he is thinking the same thing.Wait until you are alone again and enter his room at night and climb into bed with him naked.

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    • yeah fuck it go it

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  • brookedanielle

    Hi again everyone! So I see that so far IIN is telling me: "15 votes so far: 7 yes. 8 no. 47% normal"

    I wasn't quite sure what to expect, but since it's about 50/50 in the voting ... is it fair to assume then that I'm at least not TOO "abnormal"??

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  • jamesmitchell29486

    I would suggest telling him point blank you have these feelings.and yes it is very normal.

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  • randomjelly

    How old are you? Your choice of words leads me to believe that you are not a child..so you're either an old whore mooching off her parents or a pervo guy filling us in on his sick fantasy.

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  • jenn

    Wtf stop. Universal taboo.

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  • edlyn91

    It's been like many years, have you taking any action?

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  • brookedanielle

    <3

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    • gso100a1

      How would you like it if your husband had sex with your daughter? Would it be OK?

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  • Everything_is_normal

    Have a read of my comment below, i'm not sure how this topic thing works. but know i'm here, and i don't think you're strange.

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  • Everything_is_normal

    Heya Brookedanielle!, I just read this story, and every comment you and others have posted.

    I'ts been recent since you last posted, And these thing's could have gone down hill fast, I don't know if you're in pain or something wen't wrong.

    just know, I'm here if you need me, Heres my skype, Shadowoftheaybss Add me as soon as you can, Everything about you is perfect and normal, Don't let others think you're different.

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  • brookedanielle

    ...

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  • Ghostclaws

    Have you put your thoughts into action yet?

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  • brookedanielle

    Thx everyone! <3 Brooke,

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  • manii92

    Not normal.. Your a freak!!!.. Your dad obviously has no interest in you cause your his daughter.. He has a wife to show sexual interest in.. You need therapy.. QUICK

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  • topper33

    brook i do think it is very normal. its what you do with it that counts.have you done anything or are you?

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  • battles

    This is completely normal what you need to do is right after you get out of the shower put on a towel and go get something from the fridge to drink then go to the couch and sit on it in just your towel if your dads interested he won't say a thing and then make the towel snag on the couch so when you stand up the towel comes off and if all goes according to plan hell have a massive hard on and then the rest is up to you make sure he knows you notice his hard on and asking him if he wants some help taking care of it

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  • hornylatino

    When u fuck with your dad do u get barefoot? Do u guys use protection? U should ask your dad to suck your toes are u a hot blonde? I want to hear more if I gave u my number would u tell me more I'm so hard right now.

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  • lvehrtz1

    It Is normal to have these feelings. There are many things you can do to find out if he's interested but shy to act. one of which is to wear a low cut, loose shirt with no bra so he can see your tits. if he's interested he will react the way you want him to. If not he will say something like cover yourself. another way is to sit in his lap and casually place his hand on one of your tits. If he doesnt move his hand or starts to squeeze... if not he will move it or say something.

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    • hornylatino

      I have a question for Ivehrtz 1. Have u ever fuck your dad? What turns me on is a white girls with nice clean feet are your feet nice do u walk around your house barefoot?

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  • topper33

    how old are you? is your mom still there? you think he feels the same way?

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  • brookedanielle

    Hey again everyone, I haven't checked this in a while. k, now it's up to 72% "Normal". Wheww ;-) lol I'm feelin' better all this.

    <3 Brooke,

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  • Avant-Garde

    Fuck no!

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  • okbaby

    If you haven't done that already and try sitting on his lap after your shower. Wigle your butt down into his lap and get and comfortable and give him a hug. Also while you are hugging him try in a playful way nibbling on his ear at the same time. He'll get the ida fast. After all as you said he is a man.
    Good luck

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  • Alkibiades

    If you read all these comments and you still want to do it, just be a little more aggressive. Get a little porn to leave around and forget your pyjamas and panties. He's tired when he comes home, he needs his neck massaged.

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  • brookedanielle

    Does anyone have anymore advice? Looking at the stats now it says ... 53% normal ... so I guess that's a good thing, right? :D

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  • brookedanielle

    Thanks for the input everyone!

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  • dappled

    Like randomjelly, something about the way your post was written made me suspicious. Neither of us are teenagers and I'm sure we both spot things we wouldn't have done when we were teenagers.

    However, your post isn't written with the traditional male fantasist's voice (where detail is added salaciously and obviously). I could just about believe that what you're saying is true and, because of that slight chance, I'm going to do you the respect of giving you a proper answer.

    The incest taboo exists because sexual jealousy splits families apart. While this man is your father, he is also the man your mother married and had at least one child with. It's difficult for anyone to deal with their husband cheating on them but when it's with her own daughter, there is a double betrayal. When it's his own daughter too, it absolutely must signal the end of your family unit. You write very intelligently. It makes me wonder why you haven't considered something as obvious as this point (one of the things that made me suspicious).

    Can I ask why you think you have such sexual feelings for your father? I understand some girls seek men roughly in the image of their father as the bond between them and their father is the first strong inter-gender relationship they experience and one they unconsciously draw their blueprint from. Why do you think you have fixated on your actual father as opposed to a man with his qualities?

    To fathers, their daughters will always be their little girls and to move from this image to the notion of his daughter in a sexual context is horrifying enough that thankfully most people never even give it a moment's consideration.

    I understand that you may want what you want and little may change that, but you surely have to see that indulging these desires is the most harmful thing you could do. For yourself, your father, and for your mother. This is one evil genie that, once released, never goes back in its bottle.

    You need to spend more time working out why you have these feelings, and less time trying to indulge them.

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    • brookedanielle

      dabbled, Yes, I'm 18 yo and I do well in English Class so ... Thanks for the compliment =]

      ok so I admit, you do make a good point about possibly hurting my mom, which I don't want to do. Yeah I had thought a little about that before ... but, is it really the same as being the "other woman"?? And of course if she never finds out then it won't hurt her either right?

      I don't agree though that it would be harmful to me or my dad. As long as we're both cool with it, where's the harm? We're both legal adults.

      On your question about why I think I feel this way ... I have no idea, TRULY I have no idea. And, is it really so important "why" I do? I just know that my feelings are very real. After all, I don't think I can honestly choose who I'm attracted to any more than someone who's gay can choose who they're attracted to. Would you agree?

      I also know my feelings are real because of my nightly dreams about being with him (I can't control my dreams can I?) and, as I said in my post, the thought of it is about the only thing that gets me off. So yes, my body does truly know what it wants.

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      • yes dabbled ,heh,and the others make very good points and i agree but i would like to point out how chillingly blase you are to the harm you would cause to the family, yr fathers life would be ruined same with yr mother lah de dah skipping along

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        • dappled

          debilla :P

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      • dappled

        No, it's absolutely not the same thing as being the other woman. It's worse. Far, far worse. In the same way as being betrayed by a friend is worse than being betrayed by a stranger, being betrayed by your own family is worse still. Your viewpoint seems to be that because you are all family, you should find it lass painful to share each other sexually. That's a viewpoint that very few people could agree with. If it was really so, why don't you just ask your mother whether you can have sex with your father? As for her not finding out, a crime becomes a crime when it is committed, not when it is detected or solved. If someone robs a banks and gets away with it, the bank still remains robbed.

        As for it being no harm to you or your father, if you were both of the very rare mindset that thought this was normal, then perhaps. But as I said in the first post, it's a genie that doesn't go back in the bottle. Just because you think it's right now doesn't mean it'll always be right. How many of us here have slept with someone and later felt it was a mistake? It's easy to erase those mistakes from our life. It's less easy to erase a parent, let alone two.

        Finally, yes, I think the reasons why you feel this are very important. I was being quite delicate in my first post and was leaving some things to be implied. One of those things is that I think this is a problem, whether it be psychological, hormonal, emotional, or whatever. It's something to be solved in order for you to make personal growth in your life rather than something to indulge and sink deeper into whatever it is that's making you feel this way. Exactly the same advice would apply whether this story is true or whether you're fantasising this.

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        • brookedanielle

          ok ok I think we're getting a little off track here everyone. This site is not called "Is it Wrong?" or "Is it Moral" or whatever ... it's called "Is it Normal?" Like I asked in my original post, I'm really just interested in hearing IIN? or at least, is it not totally uncommon to have these feelings / urges?

          Of course, any tips or suggestions, if you'd be kind enough to offer them, would be very appreciated as well ;-)

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      • gso100a1

        Put the shoe on the other foot. How would you like it if your daughter did that to your husband. You would probably call the police.

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  • you asound a little demonic to me

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