Is this sexual abuse?
When I was about 18, I had this guy staying with me for about 10 days (Still live with my parents.) Btw he was like 20. I kind of liked him, because he was half Japanese, and I found Japanese dudes attractive. But I didn't have a crush on him. Well on the second day we were walking and he kept trying to kiss me, even though I put my head down and hugged him instead. But eventually he ended up kissing me. And then over the course of the week he would make out with me like non-stop. I kind of enjoyed it, but kind of didn't want to do it, but I didn't tell him I didn't like it. I was mostly afraid to say no because he had said he would travel with me to Japan which was my dream. So I put up with it. We didn't have sex or anything, but we got close to it. He even groped me and put his hand down my pants when we were making out. Well anyway, now that I have grown up about 6 years later, I regret it, and I realised that it was wrong to let a guy kiss me and stuff when I didn't really want to. Even though I enjoyed it in a way, as it was my first kiss. But I regret that my first kiss was with someone I didn't have a crush on. I feel like he stole it from me. Was I abused? Why or why not?