It doesn't matter, does it?

I'm 67, retired a year ago, and I've been sleeping with a girfriend of my wife's for the past 2 months. I've been married to this dear woman for 32 years. I take great pains to make sure she doesn't find out about me cheating on her because I still love her very dearly. But you only live once and at my age I know that I'll never get another chance to have sex with another woman. It's just plain fun. And as long as nobody gets hurt then it really doesn't matter. So that makes it all normal. Wouldn't you say?

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  • thegypsysailor

    I seriously doubt that this will end without 'this dear woman' being hurt. Something ALWAYS goes wrong and the spouse finds out.
    I feel sorry for your wife and I think you are a fool, but hey, it is your life. Too bad it's 'this dear woman' who is the one who will be hurt.

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  • bigol'dick

    You are a bad person.

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  • Ellenna

    She WILL find out you know and it's a double betrayal, by you and by her so-called "friend". You're an arsehole

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  • wistfulmaiden

    Are you popping viagara, pops?

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  • college

    You sound like you love your wife immensely, don't you think sleeping with her friend is an odd way to show it?

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  • AbnormallyAwesome

    You don't sound like you really think it's okay. It won't help trying to justify it. And don't think "nobody gets hurt", because unless you're a total sociopath it won't be that easy lying to your dear wife. So at the very least you'll hurt yourself and therefor your marriage.
    If you're not planning to leave your wife, are you sure in ten years you'll look back thinking: "Thank god, I had sex with that other woman"?
    Those are things you'll have to find out for yourself, but it will take some honesty.

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