It if normal to randomly show up at someones doorstep?.

I don't know if it's normal but I know people who do this too. The best way to deal with it is to flip out when they come over unannounced.

One time I had just got out of the shower and I stood in front of the large mirror naked practicing swinging my flail mace. While doing so a couple of my friends came to the sliding glass door by where I was and saw what I was doing. I yelled at them saying "make sure you call first. I might have been doing something weird."
They did not come by randomly for quite a while.

You should tell him it's a problem for you and that he needs to tell them to do things differently, or you should do it yourself. They may not even realize it's a problem if he doesnt say anything about it.

Are you dating Jerry Seinfeld?

Show up with your cock hanging out. That is always cool!

If you are a woman, have your tits hanging out. They probably sag like hell anyway.

In some cultures it is considered entirely normal. It would be helpful to know where your boy and his friends are from.

My best friend use to do this but she moved away with most of the people I knew. Now I have no one. It seems to be very common among teenagers as well as walking very slowly in front of a moving vehicle and not caring. Yes it is very rude but some people do not care.

I had a friend who would come knocking at my door every Sunday morning(the day I do laundry) and just shows up. She would always ask why I was in PJs and had not showered or changed yet. It was Sunday! Normal people wash on Sunday but it might have been the fact she goes to church and my family doesn't.

She also would do this on Saturdays and eventually I learned to adjust to her schedule since I knew they were going to wake me up and expect me to be dressed. I usually loved the company though. So it was kind of nice to be honest.

I would hate that too.

Um...is it bothering your boyfriend or just you? Look, these are his friends. And if he's bothered by them coming over to his house uninvited it's his job to let them know. Guys are pretty laid back. A simple. Hey guys....gimme a ring before you come over will suffice.

If they showed up and knocked it's okay. That's how people used to do it before there were mobile phones to text before you were on your way. I would be pleased that someone thought of me without me asking them to hang out. But it sounds like these friends of your boyfriends' are a little over board. Knock twice, wait, and then walk away. You shouldn't have to deal with him. You should hang out at your house.

How does your boyfriend feel about this? Have you talked to him about it?

I hate people like that! Do you think you could tell him that you're not cool with their constant and unannounced interruptions? Understand that you can't make him change if he doesn't want to do so. Maybe if you feel up to it you could take a break from the boyfriend and see how he reacts. In all honesty, I think there's someone better out there for you.

I guess friends always home comfortable and most of the times over step boundaries nut its just up to one of you to put a stop to that

Well I had the same problem growing up when I had a bf.. I solved that issue by not even going to his place... he eventually just ended up staying at my place

Get over it.

They might be thugs part of some kind of gang your bf joined to pay for all the crap he buys you. I wouldn't mess with these kind of people, just let them come and go as they please, and eat what little you have in that frreeaKing fridge of yours. I mean for them *cough* of course.