It is normal to hate myself for being virgin? (27 male)

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at any age. You don't have to tell anyone. If they love you, it'll happen. Don't hate yourself for no reason.

Why don't you do what most couples do when they first get together. Have a couple of drinks, relax & see what happens.

If they wanna fuck u they won't care. Don't date anyone who would be mean about that in the first place.

If you've dated and wanted sex to be a part of your life then let the ladies know. They either want or don't want it with you so find out. Don't worry about your age and being a virgin

How bad is it?

Do you just feel "shy" about broaching the idea of sex or are you so frigid that if you slept with a girl she'd literally have to grab your arm and force you to feel her up?

Don't forget that if a girl agrees to share a bed with you (unless she has chosen to wait until being married before doing anything sexual), she's basically already pretty much confirmed that she is comfortable with you.

Girls do actually enjoy sex too, when they are turned on and everything is above board and consensual. Don't be afraid to broach the subject. Stop treading on eggshells and explore your sexuality.

If you're really shy about it, I think that if you wait until you find someone you love enough, they'll be kind and understanding about it. If you pick up a girl and don't have an emotional relationship, she won't be ready to help you through it. All you need is a good emotional relationship and you'll be able to work through it.

I don't think it's normal for you to hate yourself because you're a virgin. Actually it's not a reason to be angry at yourself, I think you're more resentful to the fact that you seem to be unsuccessful with ladies and you are ashamed of it, you feel inferior. In our society, especially in western society it is not ''normal'' to be a virgin at any age because most people fuck around mindlessly. But I assure you, you are sane, just not successful in hunt for love.

im just going to have to file your issue under more pussy for me.

You're missing out, you should probably get laid.