Its it a good thing to have high hopes to a new year?

Lately, I have been rather bad end of last year. I became quite negative and would b**ch at others horrible writing style. I got into a nitpicking argument with a stupid young boy who's name starts with T and claims to be a girl, whatever.

It hasn't even been two hours yet and my fiance recieved a huge "end of the year" bonus when she went to work at midnight (Sucked, but it is fine.) I have been playing Team Fortress 2 and I gambled my two hats for classes I don't even play and I got one for my favorite class. It isn't just for my favorite class but the very hat I wanted out of five for that class. (Hats are extremely hard to get and they are very rare to even acquire.) The odds of me doing that was rather remote.

As far as that tax thing goes, I have a "test" on Saturday for the place I want to work at and it is based upon computer understandment. Lets just say I could sleep and pass. And, I am generally happy right now.

I no longer wish little sh*t of my girlfriend and no longer think about cheating or even play with the idea. I finally am...

Happy.

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  • billybobthorten

    Hello bring it up

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  • billybobthorten

    Budshutup your a scalawag so go to hell

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  • simba1

    I said you had alzheimers because, in your post above, you said you forgot your question. And, now it appears you forgot that you forgot. Oh dear!!!

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    • Forgetting to type a point is far from having alzheimers. However, if you were truly educated or at least read, you would know that. However, I think you will miss the point and bash me a few more times before realizing that.

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      • simba1

        I have actually had several years of medical training. AND I can spell properly! Now who is intelligant and well read? It aint you mate!

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  • To bad you can not listen or learn. Not my problem. Yours, Bud.

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  • Here's my advice: somehow get over your huge feelings of inadequacy.

    Big leap, but it is the foundation of your misogyny, racism, sexism etc.. A big leap for you.

    Try to create what your child will need: a secure economic and interpersonal family foundation. Then you will be OK.

    But frankly, I think these are beyond your reach.

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    • What are you talking about? It's hard to defend against something that I can't really understand. Whatever, your probably not talking to me so I'm out.

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  • Well Bud even the girl you impregnated has doubts about you:
    http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-feel-scare-about-beening-pregnet-39022/#comment-342727

    Poor thing. I hope her Mom is strong enough to guide her way.

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  • You are always only talking about yourself.

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  • LASTLY, CAN ONE OF THE RANTERS PLEASE TELL ME WHAT THIS CONSTANT BITCHFEST HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH THIS STORY? IT STARTED AS A GOOD AND HONEST STORY AND YOU ASSHOLES, myself included, LOST TRACK OF THAT. WAY TO GO.

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  • tygeronherbed

    you havent been attacked, you have been called out on your shit! and its about time!

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    • Yes you did, I guess I could source where you started if I need to. Anyways, way to be judgemental, the very thing that you bitched at me about, skank.

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      • Rant? Do you even read your posts, nitwit?

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        • Yeah, I often don't proofread before sending them off but yeah, I often reread and correct what I write with later post.

          You do you anything else beside bitch at others. For fucks sake, go out and get a boyfriend or something and enjoy your life. Sittting around the house and being depressing isn't really something to strive for.

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          • Jen118584

            You're an idiot, Bud. Nothing you say even makes sense. You're just a joke to us.

            By the way, I like how you think you're the shit because you have a job. Congratulations, you're 30 years old and you finally got a job. What an amazing success story.

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            • tygeronherbed

              hahaha yeah, woo for becoming a tax accountant or whatever, big fucking achievement....

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        • Wow, I was out enjoying my day. Makes me ask if you just follow a girl in general or are too sad of a person to truly enjoy your own life.

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    • Thanks mom. Perhaps in the future you could write on more of your problems instead of pointing out everyone elses.

      As I think you are full of shit on this one, I should continue but I just don't want to as I no longer care.

      Just try pointing your judgemental finger at yourself or stop leaching off of your parents, you are an adult now.

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      • tygeronherbed

        It's not leaching for parents to pay for their kids' college..... education is the greatest gift they have given me and i consider it a privilege and i am thankful. not that you know anything about humility, selflessness, or family bonds.....

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        • Jen118584

          Tyger, he's just pissed because you have a normal family and his mom is a crackwhore. Which actually explains a lot.

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          • What, do you actually believe that? Are you truly that arrogant and egocentric to truly believe that you know everything about everyone? I got nothing, this comment is truly beneath me and I don't want to waste time answering it. Oh, I updated my autistic son sorry, way to show a good sign of personal character by bashing a story that is truly asking for help; one that isn't silly or stupid that often roam here. Way to go.

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        • I agree.

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        • Funny thing is, I will never see it your ways and you will never see it my way, which is sad by its own merits. Don't even get me started on selfishness though, you clearly don't have a concept of this as you turned this site into a hateful place for honest thought.

          I think you are a spoiled brat who really doesn't earn the help you get. You claim this or that from your parents yet you are to damn spoiled to apply the lessions they have taugh you. Not only are you a complete moron when it comes to writing, which college should have fixed by now but your skanky ass attacked me first and I never said anything toward you or your post that I know of in the beginning. How exactuly are you showing respect or proof of inner control on that one?

          If you were my child, I would have done a better job raising you so you wouldn't have become such a spoiled and whinny cunt. Your parents should be ashamed.

          As far as humility, the definition is found here:
          http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/humility
          I have stated numerous faults of mine and asked for help when it could help, have you? I have yet to see you even try to take this site seriously or at the least, do something other than attack me lately. I haven't checked your profile in a while, but at least my stories appear to be open for the public. I'm not asking you to open it, but I am far more humble than you have been.

          Lastly, I could go on but as I said before, your skany ass doesn't deserve it. Even if I'm right, I doubt you will ever even try to compromise for equality and since you fuckers won't leave what I wrote alone I feel that I should come back and defend myself.

          So, do what you do best and spit in your parents face some more by sleeping with a random guy in a random hotel room using their money, whore.

          I now see how fun this is, if I have to be a good and hardworking person in my real life, I can be a child here as well, so bring it skank. But from now on, if you quote my ass, source the page or it just proves that you missed that day to from school.

          Shame on you, you twisted, selfish bitch.

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  • You are welcome.

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  • You are going to spew your vile prejudices at work one day, offend people & lose your job.

    You can do something about your problem. Or don't.

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    • Thanks god.

      I kinda wanted to wait until I earn my Consultants licence first but since you are so damn sure, I might do it before the end of this tax year. Thanks for your great insight upon my humble life and I truly should listen to you and those other fuckholes on this site more often.

      Bud

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      Thanks for proving to me that your comments are more based upon rants and childish behavior than actually insightful advice. If you paid attention to a damn word I have said, I spew more toward formal behavior and WHY I am intollerant toward morons in general.

      However, it isn't your job to read or follow me around and you don't have to give advice to "save my soul." THank you though.

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      • Jen118584

        Bud you need help. You seriously rant like an insane person. You go back and forth. One minute you're apologizing for offending people, the next you're calling us all "tards" and "children" and "morons." Then you say we should let it go like you have, even though here you are, ranting about it, responding to yourself like six times in a row, clearly not letting go of it, after we've all been peaceful for several days while you were away.

        I tried to point out things that bothered me and others nicely, but you don't listen to anyone. In the past month or so you have gotten progressively angrier and you are making less and less sense. You act like you're some god of education that's here to save the world.

        Why are you even bringing up the race topic again? You apologize for offending people and then you go on to say that people who still speak Spanish are stupid and worthless. You attack people, often brutally, and then bitch and whine about how you feel attacked when people defend themselves, or their culture, or their gender, or whatever aspect of their lives you've chosen to insult.

        Honestly Bud, none of us care anymore. We don't want your explanations or your half assed apologies or to hear you continue to rant and rave about how you think everyone except you is an idiot. If you want to keep coming back to this website and keep posting, go ahead, but be prepared to be assaulted in return when you assault someone else. Peoples' accounts have been banned in the past for lesser reasons. Personally I can't wait until yours gets banned.

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        • Whatever, at least you shutted up. And of course I have gotten angrier and angrier, I have been attacked non stop. However, don't let things like facts cloud your biased opinion. And as far as leaving me alone, you maybe did but others did not.

          Whatever, at least you shut the hell up today so I did get the important information I needed so I could study, thanks for that. But if you think I am going to read a bitchfest of comments coming my way, you're wrong.

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  • Lastly, if one of those "I'm better than thou" 'tards write a message, save your time as I truly will not read it nor am I expecting you to read mine.

    Perhaps you could be the better person and let it go, or at least realise that I am not talking to you and butt the hell out. However, I doubt it so I just wanted to say that I didn't learn a damn thing, I am still a child in the head, I'm a racist bigot, and I am immature for my age. There, that should sum it up so you assholes could just butt out.

    Absolute last thing though, Ollie, I didn't learn a damn thing and it is equally as sad that neither did you. And to the skank, if you are trying to have me believe that your mom has all those illnesses, I am calling bullshit. MS is a predominate white desease although other cultures do get it and the odds of all of this in one person is possible, just highly unlikely in the one person's family that wanted to start a pissfight with me. I might have actually believed you more though if you were at all credible which you are not, you have done nothing but lie and play stupid games in your history on this site.

    However, they hide that information in books and search bar results so I wouldn't expect anyone to know any of that.

    Goodnight and piss off. My fiance is heavy so skank, start there. I'm out.

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    • simba1

      Again, 3 posts in a row. You obviously dont work much!!!

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      • Saturday and Sundays are my days off. However, thanks for the comment you bigoted little shit.

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  • loverofbunnies

    What happen here to this page? I thought this site was about peoples points and advice not nip flicking back and for to one another about one thinks. This comment was about is it normal to have a great year for a while? You guys are stupid because budthewise was always looking up to you and then you stab him in he back. Well most of you. You guys don't know him like I do. Yes he did say some hurtful things to me on this site but he wanted to know from someone elses point of viwe. He does treat me with respect and would do anything in the world for me and I would do the same as him. He hasn't lay a finger on me in any harms way. He had a hard 2009 year. With his MS and then had verdago he lost his freedom of life for 6 months and finally got it back. He is annoyed that you guys took his comment wrong and he does realize that he was in the wrong as well. All in all I wanted to join him on this site because he love it so much but now I can see that this site is for the "normal people" All I can say is FUCK YOU ALL!

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  • PoisonFlowers

    "ANyways, I didn't read your full comment"

    *mutters darkly to self*

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    • From aggressive-aggressive to passive-aggressive - sheesh, what a piece of work. At least you tried PF...

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      • PoisonFlowers

        Why did I bother? I could have spent that time doing any number of things, but instead, I decided to write that out because I felt sorry - it seemed as though he just couldn't understand; couldn't see at all why everyone felt so...furious. I still feel sorry, but you'd need a chainsaw to cut through such thick skin.

        After having some more of his cruddy offerings brought to my attention (eg. on the story about an abusive spouse BUD THAT WAS FUCKING VILE http://isitnormal.com/story/help-i-have-an-abusive-husband-28472/#comment-334081), all I have to say is:

        Get out. You disgust me.

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  • tygeronherbed

    I feel like I started a revolution against you, I'm glad we won. You're hateful and arrogant rants can't pollute anyone else's computer screen. Peace.

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  • You are nasty and hurt people. And you don't listen nor do you care. Go away. Don't make a big drama out of it. Get professional help.

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  • Jen118584

    You're the one that's constantly complaining about your girlfriend, your family, your apartment and neighbors, school and your new job, your health. The list goes on and on....so what makes you think everyone else is miserable?

    And why would you include that childish statement about tyger in your story when you claim it's so petty and that you're over it? Makes no sense!!!

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    • Urg, never mind. It has been a completely stressful last two months. I start my new job tomorrow and I am really trying to not be such a negative person anymore. I always kinda respected you so I would like to say thank you for raining on my parade as well.

      I just don't want to be miserable. Oh, and as far as that Tiger person or whatever the h her name is, she has been nothing but a complaining, whinny little boy toward me. Everything about her is fake and quite honestly, I am tired of his crap.

      For everything else, I thought this was a site to write questions, give a advice and if all else fails, rant. I spent the last two weeks extremely stressed out and not being hired at the very place that hired me due to a missed interview was an extreme let down.

      I would often come here to get my mind off of fears and stress and comment toward others misfortunes. I guess I used others "pain" to put my own in perspective. And what do I get, I get a spoiled little brat crying at almost every post that I put for apparently no reason and I get the "O" guy starting to be just like her. I was attacked by this spoiled brat, not attacked her and judging by "her" profile "she" MOSTLY responds to my stuff so I think she is someone else here who made up that account just to be a complete cunt. All in all, at least I am real.

      Sure, I have been rather negative lately and not the usual "tolerant" self but I guess I let my inner worries get to me. I am sick of seeing spoiled brats like that cunt make more money because of access to but definently undeserved help while people who are born poor to bad parents struggle and they are far superior in skills and personality.

      My last comment toward my behavior, don't I have a right to sometimes act like an ass too? Do I always have to stick with the "good" side even when I am completely annoyed about certain things. Do I have to put up with horrible grammar and spelling that I cannot read but feel that I have to struggle to keep my skills up for my own sake. Is this wrong.

      As far as writing is concerned, the reason I jump peoples asses for it is because they are damaging their futures. I know I can't fix the world but if I can convince just another ignorant fuckhead to try, maybe that is enough. Why does this bother me, it is because practice really does make "perfect" and if you spend your life writing like a 'tard and then later on you can't write a formal letter, then it truly is your fault. I don't always like writing "formal" or "semi-formal," I do it so those little mistakes will be far fewer when it does matter and I have to write correctly.

      Lastly, sorry for my behavior but next month I turn 30 and maybe I am just so tired of being the "good" guy all of the time in a society of inconsiderate fuckheads. Perhaps the better people should try it.

      Paul

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      • leahquestions

        Be real or be silent, forget the Golden Rule, right? I don't know what's going on with all you guys, don't know the whole story, try not to assume. You know me the aggitated undersexed one. Actually, I'm ill and have had nothing but bad luck to an extreme but still trying to make things right and holding up. It's a matter of the heart, not money. Speaking of hearts, why can't everyone start on a bucket list early before you have to look at a Dr and they tell you how bad it really is. Any of us could of easily woke up dead this morning. LOL Yes ,it's a joke for most. You see there are people out there that when they go to sleep their last wish is to hopefully wake up to breathe for another day and be able to work a thankless job to survive. Simplistic! Money controls it seems, sad. I can't work much longer,not like I did. I say a dinner date on the beach at night would ease anyones woes- all of you find something nice to do for someone and for yourself. Just imagine one day you might get hit with a reality check about how your days maybe numbered. This year my Christmas gift to my family was filling out a will as instructed. I cut finding love from my bucket list, for now, unrealistic.Sex would probably kill me but what a way to die.. I pray that my teenage son doesn't have lymphoma and I can be there for him if he does and I don't need a kidney transplant so I can live with a diseased heart for a little while anyway. My son and I might end up relaxing under a palm tree getting a tan, enjoying the ocean and if I'm lucky pass on a smile or teach the golden rule..

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        • simba1

          What a terrific attitude. I wish you and your son the very best. Enjoy what you have today instead of worrying about what you may not have tomorrow. And to have this courage when your son may be sick as well is truly courageous. You have made my day.

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        • All in all though, it has been a while since I authored this story and I feel the same. I am busting my butt at a hard job and jumping though hoops to make it. I don't have as much free time as I would have liked but things could be worst.

          Yeah, I have good hopes for this new year.

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        • Yeah, I kinda see your point. I have Multiple Sclerosis and I am having one of my many attacks and I am losing my hands for a while. I kind of like to know is this it or will it get worst. I often wonder if I am going to die in a chair and lose the ability that many others take for granted, to walk.

          I am trying to understand what you wrote but I am rather tired. My best advice is to take the days for what they are and enjoy them while you can. Also, take joy in even the messed up stuff and try your best to survive as long as you can.

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          • Don't waste you time on this guy's posts.

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            • Yet you still do, constantly and all the time. Your basis for your complaints are rather weak and the crap you complain about is stuff I admitted to; the very stuff I felt uncomforatble on my own and asked for help on. Its like you kicking someone while he is down.

              I never said I was perfect but unlike you three fuckholes, at least I am trying to be more than a childish moron and pick on others. My hand is still rather bad and "Loverofbunnies" found out she is pregnant so I don't have time to babysit you three anymore as my life needs more attention elsewhere.

              I will continue to delete your post when they come up and don't really care if you spam IIN with hatespeech toward my direction in other's stories. I just don't have time for you three simpletons anymore.

              Paul
              Budthewise

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      • That last post was getting kinda long so I wanted to make this seperate. As far as fuckheads like that "Tyger-something" and that "O" guy, if you bash me I will bash you back. Don't act like it is a big thing if I criticize you.

        However, if you do write on something I have stated before to "bash" me, make sure your damn writing is correct and don't write like a tard.

        Paul
        Budthewise

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  • PoisonFlowers

    Of course it's okay. Is everyone else miserable? Oh, I thought that was just me. Nah, I'm not really all that miserable - I just sense that this year, there will be a lot of change and there is some sadness to that.

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    • I wrote a really good post on being miserable right above where this will land on the page. It isn't just you, I think it is more society in general.

      I was once horribly fat and depressed and I broke it by looking in the mirror one day and I admitted I wasn't happy. So, I changed my life that day and have gradually worked toward a better life. I guess lately I have let myself get caught up in childish crap and lost track of who I truly am, inside.

      There is sadness and pain in every year. However, it is how we deal with it inside that matters and will reflect our outcome of it. Just remember the saying I put below this sentence.

      Why is it that we feel far worst when we lose our last hundred dollars than we feel good about a hundred dollars that we find when we are broke? Shouldn't it be about the same level of high and low feelings?

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  • I forgot my question.

    Is it okay or normal to be happy? I mean truly happy not just the "five minute joy" that people talk about. I feel my life is getting in order and except how I feel about some of the rants I have had here, I am truly happy.

    Based upon other's misery though, is it okay to be happy at this timeperiod when everyone else is miserable?

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    • simba1

      So, now you have Alzheimers as well as MS and vertigo. You poor thing!!!

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    • hotchickie81

      I hope you really are happy and continue to be. Sadly in my case, it's a little different. I thought yesterday that I am happy with my life and MOST things are finally starting to go well for me. Well then my husband brought up something today from the past, and here I am all sad again. It's a LONG story. I truly believe I will never be truly happy. But best of luck to you!

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