Its just another excuse- iin?

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I asked my friends bf why my friend stopped talking to me, he said he didn't know but that she's been busy with gym , work etc. He also said that he went away for a week for work & that was hard on her. That's all lies because firstly, I know for a fact she's talking to our other friend (hence ignoring me intentionally), so she's not that busy to communicate with her.
Secondly- Her and her bf broke up for 3 months a little while back so one week surely wouldn't have been hard on her when they weren't together for 3 months. Its all lies , why can't people tell the truth!!?

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  • TheHighFlyer
    8 years ago

    Maybe they want you to take the hint without having to hurt your feelings and telling directly they aren't interested anymore? It sounds like you got the message, so rather than make it more difficult for everyone which will accomplish nothing, why not just move on?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      You have it wrong as I wasn't even friends with him just her. I had only known her about 8 months. Also if she really hated my guts she would have surely deleted me off Facebook by now. I deserve an explanation even if I have to keep pursuing to find an answer.
      She wouldn't be uninterested randomly, there must be a reason. We got along so well ...

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      • TheHighFlyer
        8 years ago

        If I have it wrong about you being frinds with the person it is because you repeatedly called them your friend in the post, I only know what you tell me. But if yiu weren't even really friends, that makes the situation even less surprising and what I said even more true. I never said anything about them hating your guts, I said they were not longer interested. Lot's of people don't bother to delete people off Facebook so that means nothing.

        No you are not owed an explanation, people are allowed to stop speaking to you and they don't have to tell you why. If they weren't even really friends with you and you knew them a short time then that just makes it even more true. Sometimes there isn't single reason, people do sometimes lose interest over time.

        What do you expect any of this to accomplish? The person doesn't want to spesk to you and you know this. Them telling you tbis directly won't change it. It is what it is. You are wasting your time and making the situation more complicated than it needs to be. You would be wise to let it go, but if you enjoy wasting your time, go for it.

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  • thegуpsуsailor
    8 years ago

    She and her bf

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Oops yes I don't know how I did that haha

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