Ladies, do blonde guys have less of a chance with you than dark guys?

I'm a really tall guy and also very muscular to be honest. I'm happy with these things, cause girls seem to like em. However, there is one thing about me I don't think girls (on average) like so much: I'm blonde and I don't mean "average" blonde, but really WHITE blonde. I've always gotten the impression girls like dark hair much more when it comes to guys :( Ladies, do blonde guys have less of a chance with you than dark guys?

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  • sograceful

    Hard truth: I like em dark. Sorry bud. </3

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    • That hurt.

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      • It's "tall dark and handsome".

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        • cobra4849

          This goes against everything history would say. What about Brad Pitt, Robert Redford, John Schneider, etc? These guys had more women in their day than Bogart or Hudson ever thought of having in their day.

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        • yesreid

          no its not dark. its usually tall and handsome

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          • Nope, it was "tall dark and handsome".

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        • Can it never be tall, BLONDE and handsome?

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          • I don't see why not, it's just the old saying.

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      • Captain_Kegstand

        Don't take it too hard, you can't please them all lolz.

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      • sograceful

        Sorry. I'm blond myself. I just prefer guys with brown hair.

        If it really really bothers you, you can dye it.

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  • RinTin

    I don't see many blonde blonde guys so I do notice them more when I do.

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    • Good. Also, regarding my size, you'll certainly notice me.

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  • Monogamy_Sucks

    I like blonde guys!Maybe its cause im dark and surrounded by dark guys all the time.

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    • Jan_Zondernaam

      I like dark girls!

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      • Monogamy_Sucks

        wellnot dark..but meditteranean looks i have.good to know :)

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  • SerialSinner

    I prefer guys with a very dark hair as well, but I can admit that guys with a white blonde hair(not the average blonde) attractive me even more.

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    • Satchmo

      Are u muslim

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      • SerialSinner

        Is it my name?

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        • Satchmo

          I don't know Arabic but I know Islam can mean peace and peace be upon him is something that Muslims say after hearing someone say Mohammed's name so I would say your either Muslim or hating on islam

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          • Jan_Zondernaam

            Islam does NOT mean peace. It means submission.

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            • Satchmo

              It can mean either I have heard many Arabic speaking Muslims say that it means peace. Actually the definition I've heard the most is the peace of the one who has submitted

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    • Sweet.

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  • Fionalady

    Honestly, I'm more into brunets but there's really good looking blonde guys. A handsome guy is handsome no matter the skin or hair color.

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  • Kjune.frazier

    I LOVE blond boys! I prefer them every time. Wow, they are so cute! Personality trumps all, but I swoon for a blond.

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  • berenyirea

    Actually you are my type i only seemed to be attracted to blonde guys and im sure there are other girls who share the same view :)

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  • dudeok

    ok well i am a tan muscular green eyed blonde guy and i have been told by tones of girls that i am supper attractive infact i have never met a girl that has not thought that, but i have still felt the same insecurity. why we feel this insecurity is because we are differentthen the vast majority and we want to feel like we can compete with any other guy out their. ex: your girl friend is looking at you walk side by side with a guy who looks just like you except one thing he has dark hair now at this piont you wonder who will catch her eye first? when an random person walks by you first notice skin tone if you like that then you look next at their hair color will catch your eye then looking further the face and so on. now i know about her loving you and all but girls put yourselves in that position imagine if your boy friend liked the girl with the other hair color more, you would want to dye it. i do not want to dye my hair to find a girl because thats not who i am of what i was born with. just remember only 10 percent of the population is blonde therefore making us standouts in a world of dark hair. have tried to categorize what type of women might be more attracted to us blondes. but i have noticed that girls tend to dye their hair to what they feel is pretty. i mean like why would they dye it a clor they found gross? people tend to like contrast so us being blondes we need to try and have darker skin. i have also noticed that alot of people will like traits of their first " true love" and when ever they see those traits they will think back on those happy times. natural blondes are liked dyed blonde guys girls often think look gay. yes the face had a huge part to play thats why i find it hard to believe a girl when she says she loves blonde the most because that same fear of " would you like me better with darker hair" arises. bottem line is that women do care about hair, no its not a deal breaker, but look at how they care about their own hair. i am not a toe head blonde and due to my genetics i have darker eye brows but i am still effected by that same fear so do what i did and get a tinder and say swipe right if you like blonde guys the most :P

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  • beenaroughroad

    having blond hair is a gift not a burden. Every woman want a blue eyed baby to hold in her arms, with a ring on her finger and you in her arms. They all are afraid you have a women on your arm already. Don't just walk up to a woman and say "I would like to screw you so I can put your name on my wall of conquests" They are real living souls too! just be nice, they all want you to jump, just treat them like a lady. It has worked for me and don't point out the fact her shoes don't really match her dress. Say you have a beautiful smile and I love the color of your eyes. Don't stare at the tits, if she want you to see them she will make that clear by dropping something so you can get a good look. Don't stare, look away so when she looks back at you she will say "dang it I must not have done it right and so do I do it again." The only thing that is different between a man and woman is they can have a baby and feed it themselves. They are just as hot in Dallas as you are! Use what you have, don't fuck it up with dye.

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  • januarycurse

    Blonde guys are really gorgeous.

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  • Saint-Ray

    Man all you guys/girls sound better looking. Im a man with almost black hair and so skinny that you can see almost every bone with a mix of sea green and stone grey eyes but in the sun light they are multi-coloured. Im about 6 feet 7 inches and weight about 115 lb. And im as atheletic as hell but not strong at all. I am capable of confidence and self pride but rather be the guy that is shy. And i have a thick white scar starting out from under my left eye coming over my nose down the side of it and around my mouth to the bottom right side of my chin...
    Cause from parent abuse with a knife. And a solid farmers tan. The thing is though i have alot of women looking at me a playing with their hair. I have caught them numerous times glancing at me and looking away does that mean they like me?

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  • single:((

    I'm in to dark guy lol

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  • Blades

    Oh my god I LOVE blonde guys. Tall, blonde, muscular, you sound like my absolute dream. Message back ;)

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  • mariluz

    OMG, these demostrations of insecurity keep me wondering what's wrong with you, people!!

    Who cares what color of hair you have!! If you like a girl, try to establish a connection with her and show her that you are worth your attention. It's NOT your physical appearance what will got you a girl's heart. As for attention, as long as you're hot and sexy, you'll be desired no matter your physical traits. GROW UP!!!

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  • "my friend is sooooo into your type."

    I'd like to meet your friend!

    "I wouldn't give you much of a second look"

    Ouch!

    "I know quite a few girls (from your description) that would be head over heels"

    Yes!

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  • ccjigsaw

    You're going to LOL at me for this comment :P But from the sounds of you, you're more of the "princely" type. The type you see in the old romance movies that girls go gaga over, my friend is sooooo into your type. If she saw you she would swear you're the one to scoop her up and carry her away like a princess :P That guy who joggs accross the beach in his tank top and the she swears she's seen an angel. I myself am more into the rugged darker haired type, facial hair, light brown or dark brown I don't care, and I wouldn't give you much of a second look, but like I said, I know quite a few girls (from your description) that would be head over heels

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  • blaster

    Yeah well it's a funny thing , I've always heard girls say dark hair but then I've always had a lot of attention so I never get it but hey , whatever at the end of the day

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  • Satchmo

    I'm blonde a lot of women say they prefer dark hair but when it comes down to it it's much more about how charming the guy is I think as long as a guy isn't ugly it's all about his game

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  • blaster

    Yeah I have blue eyes too , I hate it. For a guy to have blonde hair and deep blue eyes is off I reckon , well I'm not built for it anyway. I even considered contacts , also colored my hair for a long time.
    I'm much happier leaving stuff like that with the girls . I've always wanted dull , unnoticeable blend into the crowd more features

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    I have dark hair and grey eyes (everyone says hazel but I just see grey). And I would much rather be blonde with blue eyes!

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    • Damn, the grass is always greener on the other side isn't it?

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      • Captain_Kegstand

        Lolz exactly what I was thinking while I read your post!

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  • GinnyWeasley

    last guy I dated was blonde and had fair skin, he was hot. I have very fair skin too, so I feel ur pain. But dont think too much bout it, ur probably a hottie;)

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    • Thank you!

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  • cammers

    You don't sound ugly so i think your good its just hair if you have that much of a problem with it you could always dye it.

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    • No, I'm not ugly at all, just a little bit insecure about my haircolor, because of girls often seeming to prefer dark hair.

      You know who's also not ugly? YOU! I've checked out your profile and damn...

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      • cammers

        haha thank you not all girls prefer dark hair some it just doesn 't matter just how well the guy treats the girl :]

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        • Good to hear.

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      • Captain_Kegstand

        Agreed, she is very beautiful. But maybe your overbearing approach is part of the problem? Usually girls don't go for the the guy that just shouts off "HEY! YOUR HOT!" Try a little subtlety and see how that treats ya!

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        • cammers

          and thank you :]

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          • Captain_Kegstand

            Don't mention it. ;)

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        • Part of the problem? There is not really a problem besides maybe my haircolor.

          I will remember your advice though.

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          • Besides, I was just trying to be friendly.

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            • Captain_Kegstand

              Eh, as far as the hair goes, I know alot of girls that prefer blond haired blue eyed guys. Especially if your tall, and muscular.

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  • tbiM20

    I've dated both blonde & dark-haired white guys. Doesn't really matter to me. I can tell you that if you are trying the Ambercrombie look, tousled longish hair, it can sometimes come out childlike, especially with blondes, which is sometimes a turnoff.

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  • blaster

    I'm dirty blonde but as a kid I was much blonder . Every bastard use to comment about my hair it was mad. I was always thinking for Christ sake it's only a bit of hair on my f'n head what the hells wrong with everyone.
    I hated having blonde hair for that reason and if I see someone now I haven't seen in yrs = what's the first thing they say , God you had such nice hair when you were a kid - wtf ! after 7 yr s , or 10 what more hair !
    Anyway , certainly hasn't hurt the girl front over the yrs , for that I am grateful . No clue which is more popular tho.

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    • tbiM20

      My bf had the finest blonde hair as a kid. It's now a dark brown, thick & curly (curly after shaving it once)... Go figure! Enjoy what you have.

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  • lc1988

    Blonde guys are hot...wouldn't date one though. I have the stereotypical image of them that they're douches. Took me a while to figure that out after I read your post. I'll work on that.

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    • WTF made you think I'm a douche?

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      • lc1988

        No...I was just sitting here thinking "hmmm I've never had the inkling to date a blonde guy...now why is that?"

        And that was my conclusion. I'm not saying it's right. I said I'd work on it. I guess it's just because of how the media portrays them...sorta like dumb blonde girls.

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        • OK then. Blonde guys being all douches is indeed a stereotype, just like the image of all blonde girls being dumb is obviously B.S.

          Don't believe the hype.

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      • Fionalady

        The same way blondes girls have the sterotype of being dumb bitches, blonde guys can be perceived as douches. Not saying it's true, it's just stereotypes.

        There's more brunette people in the world so probably there's more dumb and douche brunettes (and nice as well) if we are talking about true percentage.

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  • thepickler

    I am a blonde and blue eyed man and women find me attractive.

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  • thinkingaboutit

    well if your really pale and your eyebrows blend with your skin, i can see why you would be having difficulties.

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    • I'm not pale at all.

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      • thinkingaboutit

        so you must be pretty hot

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        • ;)

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  • Jweezee

    Huh? I have blonde hair and It hasn't held me back. You have blue eyes too? You've never heard people talk about blonde hair, blue eyed people's looks favorably? Of course preference varies, but it's been my experience it's not a bad trait.

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