Ladies! don't fake an orgasm!

Why is this exclusive to women? I have had to fake pleasure aswell when it came to sex. That being said, maybe making their partners feeling good about themselves is more important than humiliating them?

You seem like an annoying person...

I wouldn't fake, but I wouldn't make the guy feel bad. I also don't think an orgasm is necessary for the sex to be okay. Haven't you heard this before: sex is like pizza: when it's good, it's really good. When it's bad, it's still pretty good. If the guy is trying, I think it's impossible for me to have bad sex. Worst sex I had: the guy was texting while I went down on him. That's being bad at sex!

Yeah, I never understood the purpose of faking. In the end, you both are pretty left unsatisfied. If you can have sex with a person than why be embarrassed about telling you what you enjoy, or not enjoy?

I faked it once, because the woman was insane and I just wanted her to leave.

A woman's sexual response is like a musical instrument. If you hear fake music the guy will lose his erotic sexual touch.

Agreed. What's the fun in sex if you're not enjoying it?

I think that there are many varying reasons as to why people lie about having orgasms. On one hand, there is probably a tone of pressure going both ways. The person who is receiving may not want to be perceived being seen in a negative lighting for not being about to produce an orgasm. So, they fake it to avoid this. Another thing, is that they probably don't want to hurt the feelings of their partner or make them feel insecure and somehow less than their gender.

I'm a man and fake orgasms are my worst fear. This is why I haven't had sex yet

I once told a guy he has no length and that made him feel bad !

Neither partner should fake anything, nor should they do the opposite and degrade the other for not being better.
Instead, why don't you be OPEN with each other? Take the time to communicate and learn for each other to make the experience better for both of you.

I can't speak for other people, but I know that I would much rather know the truth and learn what my partner likes than be given an attempt at a pseudo "ego boost". Seriously, if you're not satisfied with your partner's technique, tell him/her/whatever about it! Don't be a jerk about it, of course -- if you know they're sensitive, be a bit more polite about it, maybe say something like "That was wonderful, but I think we could both do even better if we discussed about it and learn more about each other's likes."

If either or both of you don't know, you could experiment with yourself and masturbate in your own time, or ask your partner if you could both try new techniques, 'kinks', etc. and experiment with each other to discover your interests and preferences.

But please, above all, you should always try to be open with one another when in a relationship. Never keep things secret or hidden, it'll only lead to a caustic relationship.

Abso fucking lutely! Kick that dog to the curb if he can't do the job! Why would any real woman keep a male around that can't satisfy her? Isn't that what female liberation is really about? NO MORE FAKE ORGASMS, ladies!

I am pretty sure faking it is as close as I'll ever get haha. But sure, it's normal to want to know the truth.. I also gotta agree with itduz

I take it someone faked their orgasm with you, told you later on they faked it, and your ego got crushed?

I'll fake it to get it over with as soon as possible!!! Then tell his other friends I eventually fuck that I didn't and that his penis is smaller than his, because his is the biggest penis I've ever seen.

It makes him finish faster and get it over with

The times we arent in the mood

sometimes girls fake it not because of him, but because for some reason they can't get there at that given moment, and the problem is in themselves. I see why trying to explain that can be a drag.
I personally don't fake it. I try to explain why it's not happening, as hard as it is...