Letting a hot, younger female friend move in with me?

Would any single guy out there let a very cute, hot, incredibly sexy and sexual, younger female friend move in with them b/c they needed somewhere to live? This is a genuine question and situation:

One of my younger, very hot female friends is frequently moving, and is trying her best to bail herself out of multiple bad situations. We get along well as friends, and, yeah, I find her sexy as hell. She's always hugging me, telling me personal things, even scratching itches I have that can't reach, using her well-manicured nails. In short, she's a troubled, little hottie.

She put the word out, asking if anyone needs a roommate, but then, I received a text message from her, saying "If I needed to stay with you for awhile, could I?". I know darn well that we'd end up in bed together within days if she moved in with me, and, because of her past with men, probably see herself as my gf or wife, as opposed to staying in my house.

I'd like to help her, as she honestly is a very nice, smart, hot young woman, but, also makes bad decisions too often. If I could somehow let her move in and still help her out, minus all the drama and bullshit that comes with her, I'd do it, but..Not sure. Just know I want to help her. And that the sex would be wild.

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  • Drugsmoker666

    This kind of reads like a fantasy, giving you the benefit of the doubt that this is real you're being creepy as hell. Somewhere in between "I want to help somebody who is apparently my friend" and "Holy crap im going to totally use this situation to my advantage sexually."

    Do what you want but don't act like you're a saint here or anything.

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    • Justmehere

      Read through everything, then comment. You're coming off as a pompous asshole passing judgement when you don't know the situation. Never, once, said I'd use the situation and take advantage; if anything, it's SHE who would.

      Never said I was a saint, either...Clearly, you are not.

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      • Drugsmoker666

        You're kinda just rambling about how sexy this girl is in more detail than necessary to ask the question, so clearly you want this to happen and should go for it.

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        • Justmehere

          It's not going to happen. Told her I can't let her stay with me/move in..Just not a good idea. Still want to, and will, help her, but not living with me.

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  • If she really is trying to escape difficult situations it's gunna suck, assuming she isn't interested, if she goes into a new place where someone she's trusting just wants to bone her. Also you seem to be expecting sex if she moves in, which again, assuming she isn't interested, would just be another bad situation she's trying to get out of.

    And if she makes a lot of bad decisions, she could easily get you in trouble or turn out to be a gold digger.

    Through no offense, how you describe and write about her is a little unsettling. If I was her and I heard all this, I'd grab a restraining order and leave town.

    Real hot fantasy, I'd love a sexy chick walking around my condo all day, but you gotta put reason, morals, and respect, before sex.

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    • Justmehere

      No, I'm not expecting sex if she moved in; I just know, to be blunt..Her history with men. She does go from guy to guy, and uses sex to get what she wants or needs. Sure, I'm still a guy and wouldn't turn her down, but, I wouldn't let her stay with me for the sole purpose of what I'd get out of it.

      Uh, sure..Restraining order..You don't know me, or, her, so, my advice would be..Stop talking out of your ass. She and I are friends, she's a huge flirt, and, if didn't want to be around me, wouldn't have asked to move in/stay with me. Kiss my ass with your restraining order comment.

      Not my fault that you don't have someone like this around..

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      • "She'd be quite the showpiece when my guy friends visit"

        "I wouldn't last two nights before jumping on her"

        "I know how she is and that it would happen. She'd do it as a thank you"

        Don't turn this back on me, just how you talk is, to be quite honest, uncomforting. I've known girls "like this" and though some just really enjoy sex, the others just some real psychological issues, and don't want to be the way they are. Also, if she's fucking you for free rent, that's a little sketchy in the eye of the law. Wouldn't you take more pride in "bettering" her as a person than fucking her?

        You should calm down a little, man.

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  • silkspector

    I'm female I cannot believe you are asking that silly question shut up and enjoy friend with benefits

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    • Justmehere

      She's not really a FWB, or at least, hasn't been. Would I enjoy jumping all over her petite, fit, young body? Hell, yes..Love her sweet smile, too..I have another female friend who let a younger coworker live with her, probably for too long, and it didn't end well. I'd like to avoid going through what she did.

      I would like to help my younger female friend, no question..Just don't know about letting her live with me, wild sex or not..Part of me thinks she'd settle herself in for an extended period of time..

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      • silkspector

        Just enjoy the company and all the opps moments

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        • Justmehere

          Thinking about it now..Envisioning her walking around my house in next to nothing, or in one of my shirts..That would be the good part. Bad part would be how young and sometimes dumb she is, her group of friends..Do I really want to be part of that?

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          • silkspector

            We all have to make sacrifices but usually works out in the end

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            • Dot123isgay

              But is he reciprocating and letting her envision al lil something too?

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  • bubsy

    Sounds like a horrific disaster. Women are bad enough roommates, but a troubled one will make your life hell.

    And one last truth: if you haven't had sex with her yet, once she moves in you never will. You're a provider to her, and that's it.

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    • Justmehere

      I've learned a few things from my one female friend who had a younger coworker live with her for almost 2 years (to the point, the coworker would refer to my friend as "mom"..jokingly, but, you could see it). My requesting to stay with me friend does have issues, and, as stated above, goes from guy to guy, so, my house would likely be a revolving door for her guy friends. I'd have to tell her no on that one, which would put me into a provider mode.

      I know her well, and, do strongly believe we'd end up in bed shortly after she'd move in. No question.

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      • bubsy

        I know I'm asking a lot, but please try to get back to me a week or so after she moves in. I'd be eager to read your report. Good luck.

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        • Justmehere

          No need..I nicely told her no..But, would be happy to help her if she needed anything else (as in..cash) after did find a place to live, either on her own or with someone. Simply explained that thought it would ruin our friendship, and, brought up the other friend, who she also knew, who had the coworker live with her for almost 2 years.

          No problem, she figured she'd ask. We're good.

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  • Cheet0

    Hey, worse case she offers and then you have a simple decision to make...

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    • Justmehere

      Not doing it...Too much drama and crap going on with her. Minus even some of that, my decision would have been more difficult. But she just has too much shit going on that I'd end up getting involved in...No, thanks..

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      • Cheet0

        Gotchartwells, amd I agree

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  • McBean

    Teach her how she can live in her car.

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    • Justmehere

      Before her car conked out for good, she did spend time here and there living in it...Bad suggestion, man.

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      • McBean

        Then she can live in her car and take public transport. She can stop over at your place for a shower every few days. Give her some bath talc for a present.

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        • Justmehere

          I wouldn't make her live in her car. If it came down to that, yes, I'd let her stay with me temporarily. While it's absolutely true that she made many of her own problems, I also think she could use a break once in a while.

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  • Jacob_Zuma_783

    Fucking hell, do you think of nothing but sex?

    In other words, is it possible for you to see the situation as just a female friend looking for temp accommodation rather than an opportunity to get laid?

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    • Justmehere

      I AM looking at it as helping a friend, and not expecting, or even wanting, sex..I just know how she is and that it would happen. She'd do it as a thank-you for letting her live with me.

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  • Couman

    Unfortunately, you don't really go into the downside of her personality. You kind of make her sound like every guys fantasy right up until the last paragraph. But if you're having serious doubts, there must be some real problems there.

    All I can say is think this one over carefully.

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    • Justmehere

      Physically, she's most guy's fantasy: Petite, fit body, pretty face, shoulder length hair, great smile and blue eyes..And a great mix of pretty girl and dirty girl. Can throw her hair up and work on a truck, or do herself up and be eye candy on your arm.

      The downside of her personality? Friends she keeps, bad decisions she makes to get her out of other bad decisions, is a bit of a job-hopper, and sometimes takes that dirty girl side too far and looks like a trailer park slut. Did an online post a few months ago that had males and females alike saying "Not very ladylike", and "Showing your true self, huh?". Was not good.

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  • BLOWMENOW

    If she sits on my face and sucks my cock 24 / 7 / 365.

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  • Kill_SJWS

    Don't think with your dick. I wouldn't let her move in. All manner of awful things could happen. She's a walking talking red flag.

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    • Justmehere

      Not thinking with my dick. But do know the various red flags she has..It's mostly associates, who she chooses to be around. Is young and a bit gullible sometimes.

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    • Drugsmoker666

      Whats an sjw?

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      • Kill_SJWS

        "social justice warrior" A sarcastic term that refers to the lesser forms of life that populate the regressive left.

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  • silkspector

    I shared a flat last year with a lad 2yrs older than me omg hot never touched me but he would walk around in his shorts omg nice package .i returned the favour walked around in pants and bra

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    • Justmehere

      Believe me, the idea of this little hottie parading around my house in shorts and a tank top or tied shirt (both tops she wears often), hair down, sexy, sly smile..Drives me crazy. She'd be quite the showpiece when my guy friends visit, no question. She has a perfect ass, bigger boobs than her pics tend to show..A very hot body. I wouldn't last two nights before jumping on her.

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      • Jumping on her? What if she said no? Would you rape her? You're fucking sexist. If an older lady with average looks needed help, would you help her too? Or are women who are not "hot" undeserving of your help?
        Grow up.

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      • silkspector

        Do me a favour man up and be a gentleman but enjoy it it may never happen again and you will never forgive yourself

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        • Justmehere

          I am both..But also smart and cautious..As I said, if it was just "Alex" (name change) and not her mistakes and drama, it would be an easy decision. No guy would blame me for having this hot, young woman in my house.

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          • Dot123isgay

            Is she still there?

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